I'm dating this guy, but it seems like I'm the one taking the initiative to see him and make plans. last time, I saw him he said "i'll call you, later" and laughed at me? Now, he hasnt called me in over a week. He called me however yesterday, I didnt pick up. Then he texts me 4 hours later,.. saying "goodnight"... should I sit back and let things unfold, or keep steppin'?
2006-11-20 19:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him work for it a little bit. Don't make yourself available every time he calls or wants to do something. Let him know you have a life outside of your relationship. Maybe you have been smothering him, so he rebels by acting like he doesn't need to see you. Just sit back, he'll come to his senses. If not, you didn't need him anyway.
2006-11-20 19:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by sassysugarchef 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it unfold. he has been misinformed by buddies of a "rule" on how many days to wait before contacting a chick after a date...guys are dumb
2006-11-21 03:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he thinks he has you under control... wait a couple days to contact him... and when you do act like it's no big deal, and if he likes you it will drive him crazy and he'll want to see more of you...
next step is up to you..
2006-11-21 03:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him it won't hurt as much if u dump him first, it sounds like he already has something going on with another girl. he's doing the back-up & run on u. ditch him.
2006-11-21 03:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by DAYNA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes two to make it work i would be having a heart to heart with him. if you love each other it will work its self out if not then it would not have lasted anyway.
2006-11-21 03:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by kathy c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just leave him his probably screwing round behind your back... good luck
2006-11-21 03:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably banging one of your best friends. thats why he laughed
2006-11-21 03:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by ryan troxell 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
step
2006-11-21 03:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like something i would do haha
2006-11-21 03:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by secretsofthe end 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he's worthless
2006-11-21 03:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by pwnz7321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋