I have to take some money back from parent up to 15K(Indian rupees).Father has given me the check.As they are not doing well,and having some health problem,i have not deposited the check and once talking on phone to them,I told,i will deposit the check later,once they will back to there home town after getting well,so they will not fall in money crash.My wife is short tempered,and there are many occasion,when she have abused me by verbal/physical,she beats my 2.5 years old kid,when i try to oppose her.I was thinking how to say about not depositing the check to her, so she will not go in the same abusive talk.last night i was thinking how to tell to herabout this,she asked me about check,i don't wanted to tell lie in the relation so,i told her what i did. I was aware that,for this,she will be difficult and it takes me lot of time to convince her.She asked me why i have not taken her permission.I did this,to relief my parents for money related worries.She abused me,please suggest.
2006-11-20 19:33:39 · 5 answers · asked by yjph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
being abused by your mate is unacceptable. your best bet is to get your child and leave. it doesn't matter if she is a woman and you are a man it isn't right that she is being abusive to anyone. please go. if need be use the check to get a new start. i am not sure of how much money it is compared to us dollars...but you can not stay with her in that environment.
good luck my friend.
2006-11-20 19:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I say congratulations to you for being a good son, and not cashing the check. Your wife should be proud to have a husband who honours his parents.
I think any mother who beats her child and her husband needs some serious help. You need to tell her that her behaviour is NOT ACCEPTABLE. Tell her that you are telling her this to give her a chance to change her ways and that if she doesnt stop, and get her temper under control, that you and your child will leave.
Could you possibly live with your parents or a friend for a little while? I know it is hard to leave, but you and your child deserve better than this. Maybe your child would be better off spending time with his/her grandparents?
Please dont put up with it. Life is too short to spend your time with someone who is mean.
I hope it all works out for you. All the best.
2006-11-21 03:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from her. If she is abusive that will never change. I know that you are not afraid of her. Start collecting evidence to use against her so your kid is not stuck in that hell. Get a back bone and stand up for you and your child. I would lie about the money.
2006-11-21 04:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has no right to lay her fingers on you or your kid. Jus tell her that you will not be depositing the cheque right now, as your parents can't afford it and if she starts laying into her. Just say look I'm just not willing to do it and if you ever speak to me like that again orhit me or our child, then I will back up our things and leave you. Or you can leave the house which ever one you’s rather
2006-11-21 04:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say but get out of the relationship and take your kid with u if she is hitting him/her when shes angry with u its not good for that child or u
2006-11-21 04:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋