Since i was 5 or 6 years old if i'm not mistaken,i have a sudden interest in either watching tv that shows dramas or movies that has a hero performing CPR on the heroine to revive her back to life either due to drowning,asphixiation,heart attack,etc. until now.I also loves to read medical books with CPR illustrations(female as the victim) when i go to the library.Sometimes i did mouth-to-mouth resuscitation and chest compressions on my wife for fun.My wife does admit that i'm kinda weird for choosing this as a fetish but later on she does'nt mind at all.She said she love it to since she get used to it for quite a long time.I do worry if i might broke her ribs or even interupt her normal heart rythm while doing chest compressions on her but so far she's ok.Seriously i love her so much and really don't want her to get hurt just because of my weird fetish.Is this something normal for a men to have such a fetish?If it's normal/not normal,can you guys tell me what's the logic for such?
2006-11-20 19:38:47 · 10 answers · asked by georgiasnakemaroon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well this is first for me, I've never heard this one before. Most men like to be the hero, and sex usually follows, in the movies anyway. I guess men who save lives by performing CPR are heros, and it the person saved is a female, sex can follow. Its probably not that weird after all, just different. But be carefull, chest compressions can interfere with heart beat.
2006-11-20 19:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by sunline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you should talk to someone. In the meantime, stop doing chest compressions on your wife. I am a nurse, and I was a CPR instructor in the past, and I have done CPR on real people more times than I like to think about. There's nothing romantic or sexual about it. You can do serious damage to your wife's ribs, and if your hand position isn't exactly correct, you can lacerate her liver or rupture her spleen (meaning: fairly rapid and painful death). If you must do CPR, I suggest you invest in a CPR instruction mannequin. You can pound away on that until the cows come home. As for doing artificial respiration on your wife, I don't think you could do her any damage, as long as you're gentle. I just hope you use mouthwash first. I still recommend you go see a therapist, though. Or become an EMT; I guarantee the first time you have to do CPR in an emergency, it won't seem like so much fun. Believe me, it's nothing like what you see on TV.
2016-05-22 04:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since doing CPR on a healthy person can cause injury and /or death I suggest you buy a book. It's called "So your going to Prison". "You don't want to hurt her"...what B
2006-11-20 19:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a different fetish but hey what ever turns you on.
if you are really concerned about hurting her then maybe you shoudl purchase a doll to do your compressions on. you and your wife could role play being doctors or paramedics or something. seems kinda kinky =)
2006-11-20 19:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about this but I'm going to have to agree with sunline and DrSH here because their answers really make sense to me.
2006-11-20 19:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like to imagine yourself as the hero saving the damsel in distress. But please don't do this on your wife, you'll end up killing her one day. Get a plastic doll and do it on that, not your wife.
2006-11-20 19:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need more EMT's like you. Bone crushers. Perhaps you
need to re-direct your weirdness in the right direction??? LOL
2006-11-20 20:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS JUST NORAML...I HAVE A VERY VERY WEIRED FETISH...WORSE THEN U..MY GF IS PREETY OK WITH IT....ASK UR WIFE 2 SAHRE HER FETISH WID U...U WILL LOVE IT 2
2006-11-20 20:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems its abnormal choose something else or ask ur wife.
2006-11-20 19:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by ram2k21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that isn't normal. It just isn't.
2006-11-20 19:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by devil's advocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋