my soon to be exhusband keeps lieing to our doughter saying he will come see her than he dont show up and she takes it out on me she is only 4 and she dont understand that i did not do it
2006-11-20 19:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by tamiwalker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's just avoiding a conflict with her. You need to talk to him that this is affecting her mental health and that she's losing trust in everyone because of it. He might change then.
2006-11-20 19:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably for the same reasons wives lie to their husbands.
Ok, now that I got that out of my system, drop the man woman thing, because liars are equally represented in both genders.
I agree, it's horrible what he is doing to your daughter.
So set the example.
PS, use the spell checker and the proper form of their. Becoming more literate will be a great thing you can pass on to your daughter.
2006-11-21 10:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aww thats not fair.....poor little petal.
I would tell your ex that he cant see her anymore until he can get his act together!.............
Or dont tell your daughter so she doesnt get her hopes up.
My ex is ALWAYS late picking up and dropping off, its so inconsiderate, because you have to wait around for them. I actually ended up telling him that if he cant be on time that i wont let them go OR I will drop them off and pick them up myself!.
Good Luck
2006-11-21 03:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him know he is hurting the child. not youafter all he needs to understand he has a responsabley to the children . in my opion?
2006-11-21 03:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it relies on person to person... so it's not a question of men
2006-11-21 05:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sunil Patel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋