2006-11-17 20:59:02 · 13 answers · asked by taken_24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my husband cheated on me first when we weren't together.and me cheating on him with someone else who's is miles and miles away from me,is way different than what he did to me...i really want to leave him...but i can't... =(
2006-11-17 22:38:08 · update #1
Yes you can leave if you are that unhappy. Cheating is never the answer, even if he did it to you first. Why stay in a bad marriage? Either get some counseling and try to make it work or get divorced and be single.
2006-11-18 00:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as friends is great! It is always nice to have a good friend to talk to. But if as a sexual partner or you know someone on the side. That is called cheating my Dear. If you are happy with your marriage then please dont do it. If not then get a divorce first. Makes things easier, that away you can focus on the new friend.
2006-11-18 05:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle_204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely have to say no on this one. When you marry someone you commit to them, if you're not happy with the person you're married to you shouldn't be in the relationship but there is no point in wasting your time with someone who is long distance when you have someone who cares for you right there.
2006-11-18 05:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by outoftouch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can you not leave?
I personally don`t belive in cheating,I think its very sad soo many people do it though.
If you want another relationship,than leave your marriage(which I also think is not good).Yet,if you`re not happy,than move on ,without your husband.
Take care
2006-11-18 17:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by sunflower2052002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DON'T YOU LEAVE EACH OTHER AS YOU ARE BOTH CLEARLY NOT TRUE TO YOUR FEELINGS THEN BOTH GET A LIFE ONCE YOU ARE MATURE ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND CHEATING IS NOT ON WHEN COMMITED ELSEWHERE THERE ARE NO WINNERS IN CHEATING I HOPE YOU BOTH FIND TRUE LOVE SOMEDAY WHERE YOU WILL NEVER FIND THE NEED TO CHEAT.BEING HAPPY IS WHAT IT IS ALL ABOUT.
2006-11-18 16:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by julie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Marriage is a permanent committment. That's the point. You need to work things out and focus attention where it belongs...on your marriage.
2006-11-18 05:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. wrong, wrong, wrong.
If you feel the need to do this, have the guts to bow out now and not hurt anybody in your pathetic romantisim. Then you can play as much as you want.
2006-11-18 05:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by kanga 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well what do you think if your husband had a long distance realtionship with someone else how would you feel?
2006-11-18 05:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by punky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a romantic way? NO! Why would you want to be dis-respectful to your spouse!
2006-11-18 05:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** thinkin u already know the answer to that.
2006-11-18 05:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋