my best friend happends to be an ex bf, but i seriously think he might be gay. he is very feminine, my bfs boyfriends friend is gay and he said he think he is (can gay guys tell if another is gay? )....it really isnt a big deal but i thought id ask, what are some sure signs that someone is gay?
2006-11-17 21:10:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he has not come out yet if he is .... so no he hasnet had sex with another guy ,,,, how ever a couple times while drinking he has made out with guys on a dare... ive tried to ask him but he gets extremly affended
2006-11-17 21:16:06 · update #1
I never said it was a big deal... and i was not trying to label him,, my uncle is gay and i dont think any different of him,, i was just wondering if there was a way to tell ,,, so for all of u who just came out and made it sound like i was picking on my best friend ,,, maybe your just should not of answerd the qeustion
2006-11-17 21:19:06 · update #2
if he is, he'll tell you when he's ready...
anyways he might just be really feminine
2006-11-18 16:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight guy's know pretty damn fast if another guy is gay, they either just "Sense" it, or hear something that tips them off, like
"I often think that women are over rated"
" Look at what hot chick ? Where ?"
" He's not gay, he's "BI" "
or Anything said that isn't "straight down the road", with some sort of sexual comment towards women.
2006-11-18 05:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you if he's gay because I don't know him but if you are such good friends can't you just ask him.There is nothing wrong with being gay & they are coming out these days & not hiding behind closet doors.Most gay men know & can tell if another guy is gay.Just ask
2006-11-18 05:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by cowboys4lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he hits you with his handbag! Sure signs? WTF
What does it matter, why do you need signs ..so you can label him and pigeon hole him, single him out as different. Let it go.
he is what he is and he will tell you if and when he feels ready
Good on him if he is
2006-11-18 05:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not a big deal why did you waste 5 points on this question?
2006-11-18 05:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes the color pink, purple, and a bit of orange than any other color. He's always concerned if guys will see him on how he looks but not that much with girls. and others you'll just see and finally conclude that he is.
2006-11-18 05:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Love or hate? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have sex with men? That's a pretty good sign.
2006-11-18 05:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feminine behavior doesn't prove him a gay. ask him...
correct him body moves for u r his best fren. change him... and make him a man
p.s. masculine men can be gays too...
all the best.
2006-11-18 05:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I do not think Gays wear signs.
2006-11-18 05:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about signs...if he is your bestfriend...just ask him! He'll respect u more for coming out and asking him rather than just speculating... :)
2006-11-18 05:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking with a lisp and limp-wristed gestures.
2006-11-18 05:14:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋