does he fancy me?

Question

This guy i have recently got to know has been flirting with me alot but recently he has started flirting with my friends even though he dosnt know them at all! I know he dosnt fancy them and its really confused me. This other girl, who is totally prettier than me, fancies him and he is always flirting with her now and sometimes ignores me but then others he is really flirty! Does he fancy me? Some people have said to me that he deffo does but he is really confusing me, does he like me and he is flirting with all these other girls to make me jealous? or does he not like me at all?

I flirt with other guys to make him jealous and he seems to look over and notices, one time i told him this guy askd for my number and he seemed hurt....thats the kind of thing that makes me think he fancies me, but i just keep thinking i have no chance against this other girl becuase she is gorgeous! she is a total bimbo though and lacks a personality but at the same time she is really sweet and he may not be bothered. He only flirts with my friends when i am there and he used to only flirt with me but now he flirts with everyone but me! plz help.

also (this is getting sooo long lol) he is a very confident, stylish, good-looking guy and alot of people fancy him, however i'v noticed he acts differently with me than with other people. I know i should get over him but i cant, i have really fallen for him and there lies my problem!

He broke up with his girlfriend of 2 years about a month ago (his first girlfriend) and when i told him that i pulled the other day he said "look at you with all the male attention, it must be your physique"

Answer 1

next time you meet him why not ask him rather than a bunch of strangers?

how about, "So, do you fancy me or are you just playing games?"

Answer 2

I'd say this guy really fancies you, but it's so soon after breaking up with his long-time ex that he's maybe not quite ready to get involved in another one-to-one relationship so soon after the split. He's having fun with the other girls he flirts with, but seems to have his eye on you very definitely. Why not play a bit hard to get ? When he flirts with the bimbo in front of you, just laugh, walk away and start talking to the hunkiest guy in the room. Keep all your options open - let him see that you like him, but also let him know that he's not the only man who thinks you're worth getting to know better.

Answer 3

There are two options:
1. He likes you and is flirting with your friends to see your reaction or to 'keep his options open'.

2. He flirts with all the girls he meets.

Either way, you should go for it! Go on a flirting rampage-touch his arm when he says something funny, lots of eye-contact, compliment his and use his name often.

Also try to get him when he's alone, especially when he's down or without his friends.

This is the time that whatever you do will be imprinted in his mind.

Never mind that the other girl is "prettier" if you show him your cute and lovable side, he will stick around. It's a competition..first come, first serve!!

Good luck.

Answer 4

Either thats just the way he is, a natural flirt (Im one too!!) or, he likes to be the centre of attention and you and all your girlfriends are giving him the ego boost he craves!!

I would put him in his place by not reacting to it - let him act the way he wants - but don't get caught up in it, if he fancied you he probably would have done something about it by now. Infact, I would tell him that theres some really nice bloke that you fancy and want to ask on a date-ask him for tips on how to do it, not only will that make him realise that he is not the centre of your world, but also, if he does fancy you then he will do something about it.

Good Luck Tiger!!! :-)

Answer 5

just ask him this is the 21st century it is ok for women to be in control it would be a lot better than puttin you and him through any more of this confusion what is the worst that could happen? and if he does think of you in the same way wouldnt you rather be with him sooner rather than later! he probably flirts with other girls so it isnt so obvious how he feels about you! some men are shy when it comes to feelings and matters of the heart

Answer 6

my opinion is that if the guy is only flirting with your friends then he is probably just trying to gauge your response to his actions, especially if he seemed genuinely hurt when you said that the other man asked for your number

if I were in your shoes I would stay with him for a while longer and if he doesnt stop flirting with the other women around you confront him with it...if he gives you the typical guy response of "babe im just looking" then I wuold leave him.......it will only hurt more later

Answer 7

He could be like me. I flirt accidently. I'm engaged and I love my fiance more than life but just because of my disposition I tend to flirt unaware of myself. I mean nothing by it. It's my way of being polite but it's often misconstrued (I think I spelled that right) as flirting.

Answer 8

well may be this is how he is may be he likes to flirt with girls or may be he sees u the same way how he sees others if u wanna get out of ur confusion go strait to him n talk to him ask him are special for him or he is just flirting with u for fun like how he does with others. life is to short to be confused for just be urself be confident to talk to him.maybe he feels for u special way tooo..

Answer 9

next time you see him, why dont you ask him if he fancies going out for a drink-just the two of you sometime (keep it casual) and see what he says.

nothing ventured, nothing gained.

life is too short to be worrying over this for too long dont you think?

good luck

Answer 10

he does fancy you, because he's avoiding you. men o this all the time. he is flirting with others, because he has no interest in them. flirt with himessively, kiss and touch him. then he will stop. so show him, it's o.k