Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

This girl I have a huge crush on said it is the only relationship we could have, I am to be her "Sub". What does that mean?

2006-11-17 18:25:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about 2 months there is this girl at school christa. she was in my home room at school and she looked really shy and i had kind of a crush on her, so i talked to her. she was still shy but she was relly nice i talked to her pretty much everyday, no guys at all talked to her outside of class. she has friends and stuff, and i'm friends with them. they all told her i liked her but she said she liked me "as a friend". that was like 1 month ago... and i haven't really been talking to her that much since. but this week we started talking again. shes more open to me now and less shy. how can i get her to like me?

ps. she did like this one guy 2 years old, he had a funked up nose that looked like he got kicked by a horse, and a funny squeaky voice and he did all the drugs. and christa is totaly not like that, but hes going out with another girl now.

2006-11-17 18:24:47 · 9 answers · asked by piano_man_969 2 in Singles & Dating

My question is, after a date, should my boyfriend walk me to and from my car at night when it is dark?

He thinks it is ridiculous that I ask this of him, and says I am "living in fear", "paranoid", and that I am "distrustful of the world". He tells me we don't live in some huge city, and I have a better chance of winning the lottery than having something happen to me while walking alone.

I am just trying to keep myself safe, not to be ridiculous and unreasonable. It actually kind of hurts my feelings that I have to ask him to do this to begin with, (he said he'd start walking me to and from the car when it's dark, but he's not happy about it, and says he doesn't understand why I need him to do this), not to mention that he makes me feel like I am being absurd by attempting to keep myself as far from harm as I possibly can.

By not wanting to walk by myself at night in the dark and asking my boyfriend to escort me to the car, am I being outrageous and asking too much?

2006-11-17 18:23:50 · 8 answers · asked by GeorgiaDawgsGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a big problem, because we haven't done anything real except drink and have sex. But now she's getting kind of weird with me. So when I had class with her after having sex a second time she runs up to be and hugs me pretty adoringly, this kinda creeped me out.

I've like never even talked to her before hooking up either, I thought it was just some casual sex, because it occurred under casual circumstances. I would think she would think the same, but no. I have to tell her off, but it's really awkward because she's in my class in all and I don't want to cause drama. I'm thinking of just being indifferent to her and just riding this out until finals are over.

2006-11-17 18:21:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

from 1st-4th grade then she moved. she was the only girl that said they hated me at that age, every day. no other girl was that mean to me. if i see her will she probably not remember and leave me alone or actualy be nice since shes older now or should i avoid her? sorry if this seems immature i just dunno wh y she disliked me soo much

2006-11-17 18:18:31 · 7 answers · asked by boo 1 in Friends

Looking for the same things I am, a permanent partner. The guy I'm so in love with has constantly ignored my questions of how he really feels about me. We tried to break things off because we aren't going anywhere and about a half hour after I said what I had to say we ended up sleeping together. We have since totally ignored the problem and when it came up again he shrugged it off as no big deal and came up with some quick easy thing to say that still didn't help the situation so now I'm ready to get out if I can't have him the way I want him. He says he's not seeing anyone else and I believe him so that's not even apart of the question, it's just the full committment that I'm looking for. This new guy really wants me to be his girlfriend and wants a real relationship and I can't give him that until I find out if things are trully over for me and the 1st guy or is he going to step up and give me what I want. So the ? is, How should I get the 1st guy to come clean?

2006-11-17 18:18:30 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs. EV 2 in Singles & Dating

if she does it then he is aloud to go out and sleep with someone else and should u feel guilty for doing it

2006-11-17 18:18:02 · 24 answers · asked by Shooter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do you ladies ever fantasies about being with a man much younger then yourself. maybe a young guy at the gym or co/worker.

2006-11-17 18:17:23 · 8 answers · asked by diamonds_and_scratch 1 in Singles & Dating

So it seems like a lot of men like dumb/ditsy girls. I personally do not find this attractive, but it seems like many girls act this way because they think it will help them get a guy. I want someone I can talk to. Someone who is intelligent and fun. Where are you?

2006-11-17 18:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by ineedalotofyou 2 in Singles & Dating

why do the person you love the most cause you so much pain??????

2006-11-17 18:16:20 · 9 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this uy (P) we'll call his name. and I met him @ camp and I thought that he was cute. then he asked me if i wanted his e-addy and I daid sure and We started e-mailin each other and so then we got to know each other and then he asked me out- so this was in hawaii when all this happened- and I started feeling wierd like maybe he is not the one and so I dumped him. he has not really been e-mailing me back so I am starting to get angry @ him- but I realize that maybe I should give him another chance-should I? maybe I should meet him in person before I say no? pleez help.

2006-11-17 18:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by lilac 1 in Singles & Dating

I've liked this guy for a while now. And I'm kinda a shy type of girl. I can't think of ways to show him that I like him without just telling him. Any suggestions?

2006-11-17 18:13:22 · 9 answers · asked by danceequalslove9 1 in Singles & Dating

and maintain a relationship?

2006-11-17 18:12:48 · 4 answers · asked by oasis 2 in Singles & Dating

hey is it true that the person you cry for also cries for you to

2006-11-17 18:11:51 · 9 answers · asked by put a smile on =) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

every one has heard that we think about it every 3.2 seconds or somin how many of you out there agree??? i can tell you that for me thats pretty accurate....

2006-11-17 18:11:16 · 27 answers · asked by Nate the Great 1 in Singles & Dating

My BF and I just hooked up and I haven't had a Boyfriend for 2 years and I don't really like him but I cant get anyone @ my skool 2 like me what can I do?My hair is blond,should I die it brown? I wear name brands,should I shop @ k-mat?LOL HELP!!!

2006-11-17 18:06:55 · 5 answers · asked by *Shelby* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy that I am friends with, we have been friends for a few months. We hang out every now and then, and one time we even kissed. We are friends through our work, a lot of us there are friends. Not long after we kissed, he started dating this girl we work with, who, although she is pretty, is kind of a ditz and not very nice to people. Recently he stopped seeing her, and the other night, eating dinner with my family, I saw him in the restaurant with another girl I know who is even DUMBER than the girl he was seeing before! Again, she is pretty, but a total bimbo. Now, I happen to be very intelligent, and this guy is always teasing me about being intellectual or educated. He also tells me that he thinks I am attractive, and has even told me that I "turn him on". He's also very flirty and touchy-feely with me. I know he's attracted to me, and he continues to date attractive yet stupid girls, should I assume the reason he is not dating me is that he prefers bimbos?

2006-11-17 18:05:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this girl, but all we really do is walk & talk daily since we have classes together. I want to get closer to her, but not necessarily ask her out. I'm thinking along the lines of giving hugs, playfully touching her more, putting my arm around her, etc. But I don't know where to start, or how to go about doing these things I mentioned. I would appreciate answers that don't include "just do it". Thanks

2006-11-17 18:05:15 · 9 answers · asked by jeg2315 2 in Singles & Dating

why do people date many times in a sort amount of time?

2006-11-17 18:04:20 · 4 answers · asked by tracksuprstar 1 in Singles & Dating

I am interested in the process and is in need of some cash anyone know something?

2006-11-17 18:03:38 · 5 answers · asked by Lyafly 1 in Family

I'm really diggin this dude i'm seeing! however i'm not at all convinced he's THE ONE! what do i do?

2006-11-17 18:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by murmic05 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 18:00:26 · 15 answers · asked by persianooo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 17:59:31 · 32 answers · asked by eharas20 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 17:58:21 · 13 answers · asked by Chocogal 7 in Friends

I would like to know if it is legal for a 16 year old in maryland to date a marine. I have heard it is ok but i want some one who really knows. Im looking this up for a friend of mine. They are to people in love but what he was grown up on was nothing under 18 unless the law says different. She has friends that tell her yes and no so iam doing this to get some more helpful answers

2006-11-17 17:57:25 · 6 answers · asked by marinesislejeune04 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with a guy friend/co-worker of mine on my birthday, we both were drinking and we ending up sleeping together. I don't remember much of it and he had to tell me the details. The good thing is that things have not been wierd at all and are back to normal the bad news is that we have an awesome chemistry still and we are both doing nothing about it. how do I find out if he is into me?

2006-11-17 17:55:58 · 15 answers · asked by TinyToon 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for marine reservist.He was sent to Iraq in June 2006 .All I have is his first and last name and age.Not even DOB.I am tired of searching the Internet night after night.Give me tips and advice please on how to find him .Is there a number where I can call etc.Thanks for help. ANA

2006-11-17 17:53:36 · 7 answers · asked by ana l 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there such a thing as caring too much about someone when you know he appreciates it but you are afraid of caring too much because you're not really in any kind of relationship together and you don't want him to think that you are just after him (even though if that's what he really wanted it wouldn't be such a bad thing) and you really value the friendship you have and are afraid if you care too much you will lose him?

2006-11-17 17:52:48 · 6 answers · asked by Sky 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's P*Kitty. But, she doesn't know I'm alive, Plus, she's on level 5 and I'm <> only on level 3. She's out of my league. I just got over the Little Mermaid and now THIS! What a wretched, pathetic human being I am. Where can I turn? What should I do?

2006-11-17 17:52:18 · 11 answers · asked by SafetyDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

i don't wan tto celebrate my b-day b/c he cheated the day before it? and i'm not into swinging, he honestly gets mad and says i don't want to have fun anymore ( i have played around in the past)

2006-11-17 17:52:13 · 20 answers · asked by trblmmmy 2 in Marriage & Divorce