I went out with a guy friend/co-worker of mine on my birthday, we both were drinking and we ending up sleeping together. I don't remember much of it and he had to tell me the details. The good thing is that things have not been wierd at all and are back to normal the bad news is that we have an awesome chemistry still and we are both doing nothing about it. how do I find out if he is into me?
2006-11-17 17:55:58 · 15 answers · asked by TinyToon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
greetings...well it's apparent that you've rounded all the bases and crossed home plate, maybe alittle sooner than planned. what's done is done. now it's time to put that chemistry to the test. a serious word of caution. as your probably aware, dating co-workers is a very risky deal for obvious reasons. may i suggest starting over with this person, this time saving the drinking part until later. so theres no pressure or uneasiness, may i suggest a lunch social. this way your pretty much committed to behaving. while dining during your lunch hour somewhere inconspicuous away from prying eyes and ears, just be yourselves and let it play out. try the lunch gatherings for a couple of days and see how it feels. if all is well then graduate to something alittle more exciting such as a movie or dinner...ect..
just keep in mind that whole co-worker dilemma. it may not seem like issue at first but beware the havoc that can be reeked if something is to go astray. good luck
2006-11-17 18:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i hope u were safe.. I think you should prolly ask to go for a movie or smthing casual . so this way u start off fresh .. and u get to know each other better.. even if theres nuthing after that atleast u have a friend.. u know.. goodluckk .. be careful the next time.
2006-11-18 01:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by cp1_tequila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend told me that dating someone you work with is a big mistake. She did it twice. If you break it off with that person it makes things very weird. I am not sure why it would be a bad thing I know people in my family that dated at work and are now married for many yrs and have kids.
2006-11-18 02:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow with a movie or dinner. This time don't sleep together until you have a few dates under your belt to see how you really feel about each other. Then you can make a better decision.
2006-11-18 02:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for trouble. It's a no-win situation to be involved with a co-worker.
2006-11-18 01:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U got what u wanted. Why bother now? Go to the doc to find out if u miss the period.
2006-11-18 02:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not do anything stupid like that again, don't u know guys love u in bed and leave u the next morning
be hard to get
believe me that's the right thing to do
2006-11-18 02:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex and the workplace never mix. Steer clear of the guy except to be polite.
2006-11-18 01:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So can I unwrap another birthday present this Friday night?
I buy magaritas at dinner.
That will work or it won't- then you got an answer.
2006-11-18 01:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for a coffee or drink or anything
2006-11-18 01:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋