why do the person you love the most cause you so much pain??????
2006-11-17 18:16:20 · 9 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In order to truly love someone, you have to let them get close enough to hurt you.
2006-11-17 18:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well Ive checked your other questions and Ive concluded that, this BF of yours, just doesn't suit you in the way that you might think. First both of you are teenagers, the chances of both of you being together for the rest of your days is slim to none. Second, hormones, this guys that got shot(gang related?) truly doesn't know how to deal with his anger, brake up with you over a simple "oh..." is idiotic. He makes bad choices while hes angry, who's to say he might become violent and maybe abusive later in life. So why does the person that your love the most hurt you so bad? In your case, its because he's immature and a hot head. but hey, thats just my two cents.
2006-11-17 18:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whn you love someone so much it is painful, in itself, whn u love them and have expectations then love hurts, we must remember that we are nto perfect and are only human, but my dear, even in love dont let somone hurt u to an extent that u will probably wake up one day and deceide you have had enough, talk abt the things that hurt you and are painful
2006-11-17 21:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the person we fall in love with is often bad for us. When you love someone you give them the power to hurt you. If you are with someone who doesn't have your best interest in mind, then they will hurt you and not even be sorry for it.
2006-11-18 05:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is true in general. It arises I think due to the following personailities in the partner
a) immaturity
b) ego
c) poor self-esteem
d) BPD (Borderline Personality disorder) and /or manic depression
and due to our fate
2006-11-17 18:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by rvsasi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an old saying. You only hurt those you love.
Love is a powerful emotion due to that emotion the pain is greater than any other.
2006-11-17 19:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause they know you love them so they take advantage of you.
2006-11-17 18:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by DownAndOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw this question the other day...yes I did....but I don't know if it's the same person.....
2006-11-17 18:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Rickard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes this is a true statement;but not all time.
2006-11-17 18:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋