2006-11-17 18:00:26 · 15 answers · asked by persianooo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust, trust and more trust. if she hasn't done anything for you not to trust her there is nor reason to be jealous
2006-11-17 18:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by trblmmmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to come to terms with the fact that you are really only dealing with your own insecurities. If you have inner confidence...you will be less jealous...also why waste your time being terrified and worried in a relationship?? Whats the point of being together if you are miserable and scared of losing some one all of the time?Make the best of the time you have togethe...enjoy it...not all relationships last..but enjoy the time you can spend happily together.....don't regret losing time worrying!!!
And whatever you do ...do not play the "what if " game...it's just a prison for you and if it gets too bad...you will push her away.... Good Luck on this!! Only you can fix this one!!
It is better to have Loved and Lost...than to never have loved at all!!!!
2006-11-18 02:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know this is kind of sweet....it shows how much you love your girlfriend, and want to protect her from anything, or anyone, and that you wont let them get close to her, but you must learn to trust that you have her heart, and theres no need for you to feel so jealous when you are the one with her, and if she didn't think you was good enough for her, she wouldn't be with you.....don't let your feelings of insecurities, and jealousy spoil something beautiful with your girlfriend......deal with the way you feel, if you can bring yourself to discuss it with your girlfriend, or a therapist, then do it so you have peace of mind and can let this negative feeling go. Good luck.
2006-11-18 04:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give your 100% trust that she loves you and on one else. If you believe her that she is, then there is no reason to be jealous. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, egoistic and selfishness. It is no good for the relationship.
2006-11-18 02:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy comes from feeling insecure. You must realize that you are worth it or she wouldn't be with you in the first place. If she IS actually going after other guys, than let her go. Don't get angry, just let go. Find someone that recognizes your worth.
2006-11-18 02:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by wushen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the biggest problem that bring on jealousy. I have the same problem and i am trying to get over it quickly before it ruins my marriage. I just keep telling myself that she loves me she chose me and that i am her man. things seem to be working so far. I also bought some books to overcome the problem but have yet to read them.
2006-11-18 12:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by The Tramp Collector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill, Kill, Kill that jelousy virus buy just knowing you are the 'Cat's Pajamas'! Ya heard me? Stand tall don't let it bother you at all. You are fine. You can totally overcome that.
2006-11-18 02:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just learn how to trust her.. and remove the insecurities with yourself..
well.. jealousy is ok as long as you keep it minimal.. yeah you need to be jealous sometimes to show her how much you love her and and how much you care... but too much jealousy can end your happy relationship.. i hope you're far from that.. goodluck
2006-11-18 02:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by pamz~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a lack of confidence.
It is a trust issue.
You either do or you don't.
If you do trust her, then just stop being lacking in confidence.
2006-11-18 02:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Love did Not exist, then Jealousy would Not exist either.
2006-11-18 02:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋