I'm really diggin this dude i'm seeing! however i'm not at all convinced he's THE ONE! what do i do?
2006-11-17 18:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by murmic05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THANX FOR THE GREAT ANSWERS YA'LL! TO WHOEVER ASKED NOT THE ONE TO HAVE SEX WITH THE ONE! PERIOD!
2006-11-17 18:12:09 · update #1
here's my two cents.....
well...just casually date him. don't really make it a committed relationship. that way if you are casual about the dating (be sure you let him know about the casual part...) then you'll be able to see if he is the one or not.
2006-11-17 18:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not convinced he is the one, then in my opinion, he is not. It's not that I believe in love at first sight, necessarily, but that when you look back on that first sight after some experience with the man, you start to believe it was love right then.
I wonder if the problem is that you do not have a clear idea of what sort of relationship you want, or what sort of man you want. "Diggin' this dude" is not, after all, a well-defined concept. Perhaps you need to work on what is really important to you before you decide whether this "dude" measures up. If you do not see your whole life with him as your only possible happiness, then he probably is not the one.
2006-11-18 04:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ONE meaning; to have sex with? If you're not sure then don't. Always follow your instinct. Time will tell; and if he won't wait untill you're sure, then you have your answer.
2006-11-18 02:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by uknowme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well don't force yourself to believe he's the one. Just chill with him for a while, see if you feel anything more.
2006-11-18 02:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend first and see how he treats his family because they say that you can tell all about someones personality by the way they treat their family
2006-11-18 02:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lila 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be friends first,make new friends as well,and you'll find the one that suit you best.
2006-11-18 02:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by ike mie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HAVE SOME FUN AND DONT WORRY ABOUT IT. WHEN ITS TIME TO START LOOKING FOR THE ONE YOU WILL KNOW.
AND YOU NEVER KNOW HE MAY GROW TO BE THE ONE. THATS JUST THE WAY LOVE WORKS.
2006-11-18 02:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by MEL 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait 4 some more time & go on.
2006-11-18 02:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lubiafi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time
2006-11-18 02:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
let things progress, there's nothing more annoying than a paranoid person.
2006-11-18 02:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by aishah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋