How do I get closer to her?

Question

I like this girl, but all we really do is walk & talk daily since we have classes together. I want to get closer to her, but not necessarily ask her out. I'm thinking along the lines of giving hugs, playfully touching her more, putting my arm around her, etc. But I don't know where to start, or how to go about doing these things I mentioned. I would appreciate answers that don't include "just do it". Thanks

Answer 1

hmm...this one is a tuffy. perhaps you should just talk to her a little more. the more you talk to someone, the more you learn about them. you know this girl...if she seems like the type that would hurt you if you tried to get physically close, then perhaps invite her to work out with you or something like that. (i know that's along the lines of asking someone out...but hey...whatever works) perhaps you could ask her to study with you...maybe in the evening. that's a great way to bond with someone. :) good luck

Answer 2

if she ever says she's cold, or it seems as though she's cold put ur arm around her and "rub" her arm to warm it :)

stop, ask her to hold ur backpack a sec, or take something out of ur bag, something like that, and then when she gives it back say "thanks" and give her a hug

joke around w/ her more try to make her Laugh. very important. get into an "argument" to annoy her and then lightly pinch or "punch" her arm jokingly...she may respond by hitting u back! :)

if u ever walk after school, when u leave, say "do i get a hug??" even if u don't, it's kinda cutesy fun joking around

good luck.. if she touches u back it's a good sign...ask her to someday. if she doesn't or tries to get away from u too much, or stops walking w/ u, then i guess u gota find a new one!

Answer 3

try to figure out if she'd be comfortable with it first. if you suddenly start being a bit touchy she might get freaked and things might get awkward. so maybe you could start with minimal contact. and don't appear too eager because she might feel overwhelmed or something. maybe you could observe how she is with other friends, see if she's a touchy person or not. then you can start slow with those things you mentioned - just try not to do them out of the blue just yet (like hugging her for no reason or just coz you 'felt like it'). you could be sly about it -- like putting your arm around her when you're crossing the street or if you're walking and she's about to hit something (so putting your arm around her is a way of protecting her) or if you want to lead her in another direction. stuff like that, lol. :)

Answer 4

GRAB HER BOOB IF SHE LIKES IT MOVE IN CLOSER. IF SHE DOSENT THAN STAY AWAY.

JUST KIDDING!!
YOU CAN EITHER PLAY IT SAFE AND ASK HER IF IT WOULD BE OKAY. AND TELL HER YOU WANT TO RESPCT HER AND DONT WANT TO DO ANYTHING TO MAKE HER FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE.
OR TRY SOMETHING NEW EVERY WEEK OR TWO UNTILL YOU GET WHERE YOU WANT TO BE.

DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT, BUT BEWARE BECAUSE FOR SOME REASON WOMEN HAVE TO PLAY GAMES AND SEND THE WRONG MESSAGES JUST TO GET ATTENTION, BUT WHEN THE MEN ACT ON THEM THEY GET ACCUSED OF BEING TO PUSHY (he tried rape me!!!) SO BE CAREFULL NOT TO FALL VICTIM TO THE DRAMA OF WOMEN.

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

Answer 5

Well my guy,you just have to brave about it.Maybe you can hold her hand while crossing the road?Help her to wipe her mouth after a meal?Girls get cold with guys who don't have action.You can't just walk and talk.

Answer 6

I had i guy friend that wanted to do those things to me but it sure scared me of! tell her you like her and would she mind you getting closer, that way you know, rather be safe then sorry!

Answer 7

Ok when she is sad try and make her happy.And give her a lot of compliments ok??!!

Answer 8

Ask her for dinner.

Answer 9

be open to her...