if she does it then he is aloud to go out and sleep with someone else and should u feel guilty for doing it
2006-11-17 18:18:02 · 24 answers · asked by Shooter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are adults...if they got it in their heads to do it, then if you say no, they will just go find someone else to do it. Might as well be you! *wink, wink, nudge, nudge*
If it's going to be bad, it already is. If you say "no", then they will quit hanging around with you because you said "no", and it will embarass them or they will just feel uncomfortable with you after that. If you say yes, he may get jealous and you'd lose too.
That said, if it works out, it could be cool for all of you. So much depends on how THEY react to it, assuming you keep your cool and know that you are just a sex toy, and don't fall in love with her or make yourself a nuisance.
2006-11-17 18:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by tallcowboy0614 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him, this will complicate things between everyone and it isnt worth it. Its ok for other people to be attracted to other people thats just human nature its what you want to do with that attraction that can get you into trouble. But I guess it just depends on how aggressive she is being towards you and it sounds like she is. You might be doing him a favor though by telling him because although you may not do anything with a married woman not a lot of guys feel that way so later down the road she might be attracted to someone that will have relations with her. You are a great friend thats wonderful that you think that way, it just depends on aggressive you feel she is being towards you. Good luck, its a hard position to be in.
2016-05-22 00:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be a very good idea. No matter if you were friends with this guy or not, it's just wrong to cheat in the first place, and especially if you are married. As for the guy saying go for it, he might just be wondering if you would actually consider sleeping with her, and that could ruin your friendship with him. Although he says go for it, I don't think he could actually mean it, if he truly loved his wife, there's no way he would stand for it. If you are as good of friends as you are with this guy, you shouldn't even be asking this question. Don't do it, it could ruin a very good friendship, and that's more important than just gettin some.
2006-11-19 08:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by Rach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is wondering how good a friend you are stay away from the wife unless you want to ruin the relationship between you two and end up in a fist fight. True friends would say to the guy sorry buddy thats your wife and I do not do that sort of thing period.
2006-11-18 09:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it, it could ruin your friendship and is one little romp worth it? And I'd have to say yes why shouldn't he, she would hardly have the right to say anything. I think you should feel guilty and you would if your a true friend, with or without his permission.
It doesn't sound like your friend loves his wife any longer, and this could be his excuse for an out or another relationship. I wouldn't want anyone to be able to blame me for their divorce.
2006-11-17 18:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to get in the middle of their marriage. Not only could you cause problems for them, but you could lose your friend as well. Don't mess with another mans wife, even if she is not smart enough to say no for herself. Isn't your friendship worth more than a one night stand?
2006-11-17 18:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "should you feel guilty"? Under the circumstances, yes, you should. I am not sure if the meaning will get across here, but "should" means that under those certain circumstances, a normal person would feel guilty, so yeah, you should probably feel guilt if you do this. Expect it.
2006-11-17 18:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by my2cents 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree on some ground rules before you "get into it". Make sure everybody understands what this means and where it is going to go. If you aren't upfront about it you will soon be writing another question along the lines of - "HOLY F".
Good luck - it could be fun,
A
2006-11-17 18:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay out of it. There's obviously some problems between them, and sleeping with her will only put you in the middle of it.
2006-11-17 18:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would turn off the TV set and go make dinner...
2006-11-17 18:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋