I am an average 17 year old guy. for a little over a year now I have been talking with a very attractive girl. I love her so much that it hurts sometimes when I realize that she doesnt care about me in the same way. what should I do?
2006-11-17 21:13:38 · 9 answers · asked by mrfusion_89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's pretty OUCH... but you know what, sometimes girls' actions are the contrary of her feelings... is she the one who told you she doesn't like you? If she did, then that's really OUCH... but if not, clear the air.. if unfortunately you are very sure that she doesn't like you, remember: there are millions of fishes in the sea.. besides, maybe you are just blinded by her beauty that's why you couldnt find the one you are looking for...I would suggest you to LOOK BEYOND... and maybe this time, you could find the right girl.
2006-11-17 21:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by -'UpEnDi'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so you know that she doesn't get off on you so hide in the hallway when she goes by for the rest of eternity. No that is what I did and it got me nowhere so here is the revised plan now that I am older and wiser. Approach her and do it from the perspective that you have nothing to lose, cause you never had anything in the first place right, and take it from there, you are you and she is she, so have some fun with her. Find out what makes her laugh, what she likes, or doesn't like. By letting her get to see how you are without you getting all googly eyed over her she may just like you. This will be hard for a while because you have had this impression of her being the beautiful one, but keep up your new strategy and soon she will be looking at you differently, which is better than the present, right. Good luck and keep it on the light side, girls love guys that can make them laugh.
2006-11-17 21:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. PDQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, only you have the real answer. But If you first make sure review yourself in this situation
I think you should at least make sure that you did everything you could do (positive) to make your relationship work. If you did that your first step because you have no control over her emotions.
People can give advise on getting over a girl but you must do what's best for you. What works for me may not work for you.
Good Luck
2006-11-17 21:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Will H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to accept the fact that she's not meant for you. You'll have to find another one. I know it hurts but In Love there's always a time you get hurt. It's natural.
as others would say: Loving can sometimes hurt. It's a part of it. Being hurt is also part of being alive! You can't get away from it!
2006-11-17 21:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Love or hate? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What can you do? What is there to do? Have you explored the possibility of a relationship with her? Have you tried asking her out? Cooking her dinner? Breathing in her face? Singing her a song? If you think she's the one, don't just shrug your shoulders and give up. Win her heart!
2006-11-17 21:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself time,you will get over her,i felt the same about a guy then i just said to myself one day,he isnt meant for me,there is loadsa other guys to get t know! and the fun begins then!
2006-11-17 21:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by *cutie with a bootie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to realize that she isnt who is meant for you. Give yourself time and move on.
2006-11-17 21:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a psychiatrist.
2006-11-17 21:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you ignore gurls they will come
2006-11-17 21:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋