I lost my virginity at 17 and only done it with the same guy a couple of times. I'm 21 now and have not had sex for over 3 years. Does my vagina tighten up? My now boyfriend thinks I'm a virgin and if I have sex again is he able to notice that I'm not a virgin if I don't tell him?
2006-11-17 19:06:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its because of my religion.........you are supposed to stay virgin up untill you get married. Its a big deal since im a muslim and I'm afraid that he will not like and respect me after I disapoint him.
2006-11-17 19:30:02 · update #1
No he won't be able to notice, becuase not all people bleed on the first time or feel pain or anything, so honestly...no he will not be able to tell, don't worry about it
2006-11-17 19:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kollege Gurl 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
What do you want to achieve by make him to believe you are a virgin when in actual sense you are not one. Well if he the smart type, he should be able to know that you are not a virgin.
2006-11-17 19:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should tell him...it's better that he'll know it from you than from other people..but if you think that he will not find out...it's up to you my friend said that you cant really tell if the girl is a virgin or not bcoz after months of not having sex or like yours you said years maybe he wil not find out..it will be all in your head that you are not a virgin in your conscience that you lied about it to your mate
2006-11-17 19:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by LaDy in Luv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He'll only know that you are not a virgin if you do it with. Otherwise, he wont not unless you tell him. Why, is virginity an issue on your relationship.? If a man really loves you, virginity is no issue.
2006-11-17 19:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by mared 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First off, why would you lie about your not being a virgin? Its part of who you are, a part you chose to have. If it bothers him that you have been with someone before him then he isnt worth it. But to answer your question, no, he cant, but you should tell him anyway.
2006-11-17 19:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yes..you can never relive the "first" time..
Your hymen will not replace itself, and he might notice that he is not breaking it..
no blood, the same pain and wonder will not be there..
Just be honest and tell him exactly what you told us..
The exception is this..
If he is a virgin, he will not know any difference, so you will be able to lie to him that way and make him think its your first time too..
2006-11-17 19:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If most guys can not tell a lady is having an orgasim then I do not think he can tell if you are a virgin.
2006-11-17 19:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he will be able to tell, as certain things will not happen this time around. Honesty is always the best policy.
-NmD!
2006-11-17 19:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No.If you dont tell him......but if you are gonig to sleep with him, why would you lie to him....not building a good foundation for a relationship that way.
2006-11-17 19:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Hello!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really Loves you it will not matter. your past is forgiven.Wait til you are married before your next time having sex if he really Loves you he will respect you and the past won't matter..
2006-11-17 21:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋