I'v been talking to his boy that I met since I was about 12 or 13 and I found out that I really like him. He tells me alot of things and one day he told me he was looking for this girl that moved away when he was little. He told me he just relized that he loves her. Like a good friend, I told him it was cool that he found someone he loved and I'd help him find her. That was a year ago and we havent talked about that since. I've kind of gotten over it, but is it ok that im still heartbroken?
2006-11-17 18:57:41 · 6 answers · asked by De DE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that anytime we hope to share love with someone and for one reason or another it doesn't work it, it's hard to get over. The longer that you've held on to hopes to share love with someone, the longer it's going to take to process the disappointment of not being able to do that. I'm confident that when you're ready to be over him, it'll happen. The key is not to rehash it so much that you get stuck and comfortable with being forlorn about this "lost" love. It's kinda like sleeping with dead bones...after a while it stinks, but you're around it so much that you eventually stop noticing the smell.
2006-11-17 19:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by fiteprogram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really do not stop loving them; and you will have "THEM". I had so many platonic boyfriends in my lifetime. Although it has been 20 years since I have dated, I remember my loves as if they were yesterday. A certain song, car, or area that I visit, I seem to remember one of them. Today, it is fun. However, I feel so bad because I was looking for my "perfect" man and there was no such man. If you find a boyfriend who is gentle, caring, loving, and RESPECTFUL of you, the love will come if you give it a chance. As for now, start looking; that is more fun than mourning the death of your love.
2006-11-18 03:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by doglas p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm heartbroken too.I found a guy and I thought he will be the one but now he dissapointed me(he cares more for his friends).I will never love again or trust a guy.Don't worry you'll get over this and you'll find another guy because you're young.I've been deceived two times.
2006-11-18 03:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kuchu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear i understand but love is mutual and only this will be happy. don't get yourself hurt or hardbroken but in life the most blessed moment is when u realise the special someone come. good luck.
2006-11-18 03:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him,and move on in your life.you can not stuck or living in the past time (1year ago).Move on,and live your present and future life,forget the past time.Good luck.
2006-11-18 03:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face the grim reality girl he is in love with the other girl there is only way to calm your heart that help him find that girl
2006-11-18 03:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by zain86us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋