I've known this guy for about a year through friends - but kind of distanced myself from him because he's a horrible person. But about 3 months ago, I got to be better friends with him and found myself liking him aswell. He's still the same horrible person, but he's always flirting with me, always putting his arm around me and stuff, and he does this with some other people but not to the extent that he does it with me to. He's also got a reputation for "messing girls around", in the way that he leads them on until they like him, then he ignores them. He tried to do this to me once, but about 5 minutes after, he was really apologetic about it and oviously felt pretty bad. I always have "deep" discussions with him while emailing and stuff, but then whenever I see him in real life, he's always so horrible to me. He says this is because of low self-esteem, and that he's trying to make himself look better by being mean to me...
Does he like me?? What's WRONG with him???
2006-11-17 23:55:37 · 21 answers · asked by ledgebag 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a waste of your time. Forget him and find somebody worthwhile.
2006-11-17 23:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by migdalski 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is not right for you. or anyone. he has no confidence and that is probbably the reason he keeps pulling away. But if he is a horrible person you should not hang around him. I read of this girl and she and her boyfriend were going for a drive and then he stops somewhere and hands out a whole bunch of illegal drugs. They all got arrested, in cluding the girl. I just don't want this to happen to you
2006-11-18 00:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he likes you enough for the time he spends on email and stuff. Nothing wrong with him - the guy know what he is doing(be it means fooling around, messing around). It sound like you are having some problem. You should take him for all that he makes himself worth.
2006-11-18 00:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men find it hard to show there true feelings and either treat u bad or treat u like 1 of the guys either way its not the way u want to be treated i wud play him at his own game and treat him the same to see how he likes it and if he asks why just say how it makes u feel when he treats u that way and maybe u both might overcome it and have a perfect relationship hope this helps xx
2006-11-18 00:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by duskess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you said that he's a horrible person and always flirting with you. But from what you're saying, I'm sorry but it sounds like he doesn't respect women. Maybe you should try not to be so close to him.
2006-11-18 00:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Shanz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A better question is WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? If he is a "horrible person," what is the attraction? Oh, wait, I get it, YOU can tame the beast, right?
Be real with yourself. If you get emotionally involved with this loser you'll suffer. If you have some sort of savior complex, know this, you're the one who needs to be saved--FROM YOURSELF!
You've been warned. If you have good sense you'll take my advice and give me the ten points.
2006-11-18 00:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE NEEDS HELP....
GET AWAY FROM THIS JERK AND NOW.
He will end up dragging you down.
If he is not a nice person,why mess with him.
Go find yourself anice guy that is going to treat you like a lady.
he has some deep emotional problems himself you do not need aperson like this is your life.
you can do one of two things.
take the advice and find happiness or
ignore the advice and find out you are in an unhappy realtionship
2006-11-18 00:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is one of those people who has had a bad life and you will feel sorry
for him. He does not care about you. He is manipulating you. You know
he is not a nice person so get away from him. Do not let him get to you.
Run away. He will not get any nicer. He will always be an @@@hole.
I know. I married one like him. It took me 20 years to figure out that he
was not to be pitied ....he was to be avoided.
2006-11-18 00:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by sunnymommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you like him because you think you can change him... its a challenge... turning a bad boy into a very nice bf????
if you like him and you think he like's you, just next time when he is mean to you again, walk away!!!! dont look around, just walk away and go and talk to some other friends, if he asks you why you walked away, tell him you wont put up with this type of behaviour!!! no matter how low his selfesteem is, you dont have to put up with it!!!
if he likes you, he wont do it again, if he does, he isnt worth you're time, and you cant change him!!!
Good luck, hope he changes :)
2006-11-18 00:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not like himself then how can he possibly like someone else?? WAKE UP!!! Get away from that man, you already have the early warning signs to get out so don't even start something!
2006-11-17 23:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
everyone here has given you good advice...don't mess with this lad...he has issues...don't go there....you'll end up on the receiving end of a bad situation if you stick around...do yourself a favour and leave this loser alone...who wants to be around someone who's bad to them...don't be a pushover girl....drop him like a hot potato...answering the last part of your queastion...no he does not like you, he's playing with you, once you fall for his (phoney) charm he will dump you just like he did with the others...
2006-11-18 00:05:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋