I met a girl in church ,luckly she is a christian and so do i.I don't know how to say that i like her ,give me some advice please.
2006-11-17 23:46:31 · 4 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should tell her how you feel. Don’t feel scare if she would turn you down. If you’re too shy to approach her,
What i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. And no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve.
All the best to u.
2006-11-18 01:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah brother- what a wonderful and pleasant problem to have!
Do you realise how lucky you are? To have someone be that interested in you and you them..?
Nothing needs to change. Shes picked you out because of what and who she sees. You start trying to be something and someone you're not now- and its over before its begun!
Be cool and be yourself, be natural. Talk to her and befriend her first. Ask her out for a quick coffee or some lunch.
Its got to be personal and private, but not too heavy and over powering that she runs away in surprise and fright.
i.e. Dinner may be going too far too soon...
Resist the temptation to take her to the movies. You can't really talk and its not good for getting to know her.
Do something fun like ten pin bowling or something like that. Something that you can both have fun with and have a laugh together.
Her enduring memory then will always be one of happiness and fondness for you, she may even grow to love you.
And you her...
Hold on to what you've found my friend, because when love is gone you'll find yourself cold and alone- and its a soul crushing feeling, trust me.
The Iceman.
2006-11-18 07:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to the movies or out to lunch and sit and get to know each other. Then if you still have feelings for her, just tell her you'd like to spend more time with her and get to know her better. Good Luck.
2006-11-18 08:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is not to think about asking her just come right out and ask all she can say is no.
2006-11-18 07:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by terry3798 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋