I have been seeing this guy i like about once a week for a few months now, but im very confused--We both work different shifts so the only time we see each other is after his shift (after midnight) on my day off--we watch a movie and then He crashes at my place because we are both tired--we usually go to sleep but theres usually some cuddling and kissing that goes on in the morning when we wake up--thing is when it starts to get serious (in bed that is) he cuts and runs always having some excuse and then i may not hear fom him for a week until he calls again--i would call this a booty call except for the obvious reason that there is none lol--hes said hes afraid of getting hurt again but i dont know what to think---help
2006-11-17 23:46:02 · 7 answers · asked by wonderingwhy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This story will explain itself in time.
2006-11-17 23:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three possibilities come to mind. One, he's gay. Two, he's seeing someone else, and not yet sure if he wants to "cheat" in biblical terms. Three, he is no good in bed, and he's not ready for you to know it! Next time you have a day off, make yourself unavailable. Don't explain ahead of time or anything. Just don't be around, or say you have other plans. This will get him thinking, and maybe force his hand a little bit. Then you may know more about what he's really thinking.
2006-11-17 23:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he's ether married or in a relationship, or it could be he is frightened or is impotent 'unable to perform it that department ' either way it is very stange behavour, i would wonder whether this relationship is worth carrying on with. maybe he just needs a bed for the night, do you know anything about him, where he lives ect. If not i'd be quite concered. you will never know why men behave the way they do, they can all be very stange.
2006-11-18 00:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not ready. He will know when the time is right. Enjoy that. He really cares about you.
2006-11-17 23:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no, this unfortunatly, means that this pidgeon has disease called envirolovic, it is very deadly:(.
2016-05-22 00:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill explain
2006-11-17 23:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very strange. But you'll have to ask him. Tell him to please be honest. Good luck.
2006-11-17 23:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋