I have been heart broken over a guy for months now, I am not sure whether or not we'll get back together. Well I have received offers from a guy I know well and I do like, well not for anything serious, just some amusement... good time, getting a bit sennsual.. Just a bit.. you see like making out and stuff like that.. you think I should go for it? I am resisting still, but I feel that I have emotional needs and want to have fulfilled even if it were for a short time... Tell me??
2006-11-17 23:38:22 · 15 answers · asked by Chichou 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say go for it. As ur long as ur not fooling urself that it's more then it is, I understand how it can be comforting to have someone to hang out with in a more than friendly way. as long as the guy is sensitive to ur situation and cares about u as a friend as well as a 'sensual' buddy, u can make the most of the situation!
2006-11-17 23:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Franka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to get past the other guy and go out and have some fun. There's no sense in sitting around in misery longing for the other guy. It's been a few months you said so I think it's probably over. Go out with the new guy and start living your life again.
2006-11-18 00:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you've been sad for far to long. Go out and have some fun, but go from being to slow moving on things to way to fast. You don't want to get hurt again. It's easy to get close to someone when you're having a good time. But anyway pit a smile back on your face and start enjoying life again. Best of luck and take care.
2006-11-18 01:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by bigjg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy.I'm married 7 years now,
I can't imagine "Some amusment... getting sensual" without emotions.
if he is not commited emotionally,
then he isn't thinking about your needs,
ask yourself, do I want to be in a relationship where he doesn't care about my needs?
You've no doubt seen the jokes about men who don't please their woman, who don't think about their feelings,
After the "new" wears off, where is that gonna leave you
and worse, what happens when you develope strong feelings for him ( or the other way around) and he doesn't want a serious relationship.
also concider,
what if he was harboring feelings for an old girlfreind,
and one day he calls you up
"well its been fun, but I'm getting back with my ex"
you are setting up a sitiation like that if it is not over with your ex.
long story short,
Its your life,
but you seem to be putting yourself in a situation where pain is possible, and likely, and what is the possible gain?
2006-11-17 23:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by papeche 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take it as it comes. Avoid burning the candle at both ends and jumping in headfirst on the rebound. Big mistake.
2006-11-17 23:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think with your head and not your privets.
I know this for a fact. On the other hand, being to conservative can lead to a very boring life.
2006-11-17 23:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mikey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should move on. If it happened months ago, you should forget about him. Start a new relashionship. Don't let him stop you from getting all the fun. You should go out.
Hope I answered your question!
2006-11-17 23:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Every Guys Hott Dream Girl!* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be happy. If you feel that this will make you happy, go for it.
2006-11-17 23:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, loosen up and have fun.
2006-11-18 00:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by eightieschic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes go for it
2006-11-17 23:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋