I always had low self-esteem but a week ago I just decided to be positive and start meeting girls ..so I did but none of them seemed to be interested in me,people told me being really funny is the key but I don't want to be funny or make fun of myself,I'm kind of a serious guy but I can be funny at times and I'm kind,neat,romantic,smart and studying dentistry but girls care a lot about looks.
so what do you think guys..do I have to be funny ??
will I ever have a gf or should I wait till I become a dentist????
2006-11-17 23:48:43 · 29 answers · asked by James 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look around brother, most of us are ugly. We typically don't diet or exercise much, we don't wear makeup, we don't dress sexy. We are men and we are ugly. In my opinion, the best way to find a gf is to be able to hang out with girls. The more they get to know you, the better chance you will have dating one. Now, there are a couple things that will help and yes, being funny is one of them. Don't fret much about that. Girls are easily entertained and find more stuff funny than you would think. You also have to understand the woman's natural instinct to be protected and cared for. So far, the career thing you have in your future s great so no problem there. Now you just have to project yourself as being confident. Petty easy, just stand up tall, look forward, think before speaking, make eye contact, firm hand shake and don't take crap from anyone. good luck.
2006-11-17 23:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's not the right time for you to meet the right one. But that doesn't mean you can't date around. You just need to be more patience and confidence in yourself. It's ok to be funny at times and serious too. Anyway, not all girls go for looks. Some go for the personality. So, try not to try too hard. You'll never know that sooner or later someone might just be interested. Maybe they're just shy to tell you? Just look around. Make new friends. Hmmm .. I don't think you need to wait to become a dentist to have a gf. Cheer up and don't worry about it too much. :)
2006-11-18 00:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Shanz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever see Forrest Gump? Stupid is as stupid does? Well, it's the same with beauty! Stop thinking about what you look like on the outside! Imagine you are the most handsome man that ever lived, and carry yourself that way! I don't mean be stuck up, but be confident! Be kind and always smile! Compliment people and be sincere. Be helpful. And yes, sometimes be funny! Pretend you are just as normal or good looking as everyone else, because YOU ARE!
2006-11-17 23:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your looks are not that important,
first, you don't really want to be in a relationship where looks are the most important thing.
why? you looks are gonna change over time,
and secondly, there is always someone more good looking than you.
The best way to find a partner is to do the things that you enjoy,
and take note of who else is there that enjoys them also,
first make freinds.
Freindship may lead ( but doesn't have to) to many oppertunities to get to know someone better.
Freindship is your Goal, and then see if it leads somewhere.
when you do get serious with someone,
then you are allready freinds,
you know things about them that will help you, their likes, thier dislikes.
Don't be someone you are not. That is lying, and then when they see thats not who you are , the natural question is
What else did they lie about?
Meeting people is a gradual blending of personality,
not a job assignment " ok, show up at 10 dressed in a suit"
2006-11-17 23:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by papeche 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is important to look but don't be so hard on yourself because True Love doesn't have to be coaxed & True Love does not hold itself out in front of you like a glass of water in the middle of the desert only to be snatched from under you when you get near it. When You complete Your studies to become a dentist, Your title will mean that You will be able to support a family. I pray for your success in both.
2006-11-18 01:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jim H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is about look.. I am so pretty and my love life is a disaster... I know many guys whom you would throw up looking at and they have beauty queens. More important define what kind of girl do you want for yourself... If its looks you are seeking, then do not blame others if they do the same. And hey, never ever make a laughing stock of yourself to please anyone. If you are serious that is sweet. I love a serious guy, who know when to be funny and when to stoo.
I know there is one for you as much as I know there is one for me. Good luck
2006-11-17 23:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by Chichou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing a guy could do is be himself. For some women looks matter.... for others they don't.
If being yourself means your a serious guy.... then smile and be serious at the same time.
Joking around helps girls get interested... but nothing is better then a guy who isn't scared to be confident and be himself at the same time.
Also... look at your options you have infront of you. There might be someone who is head over heels for you and you don't notice it.
2006-11-17 23:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 07:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are not ugly, but even if you are, you sure can have a girlfriend, you'll just have to wait for the right one. I've had boyfriends that were somewhat dorky, but I find that the more I get to know them, the better they look. Make sure you are looking for good qualities in women, and that you aren't being superficial, and you will find the same.
2006-11-17 23:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't honestly matter how ugly you are...usually if a guy has all those qualities that women would die for (but usually never find) or even half of them-a good listener, a gentleman, has time for her, and is interesting to be around, you can get anyone!
2006-11-17 23:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by LiRona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋