I met this man - he is from out of state, but we were together for a week. When he left, he made all sorts of promises, that he was definitely coming back, that he was going to live here, all sorts of BS. He even had me looking at property for him to buy! We talked every single day for a month, then no answer on the phone for a week. I didn't know if he ws dead or alive!
We did NOT even have an argument, so I had no clue, until he called my work and threatened to press charges. WTF? (Kind of hard to prove since we would talk for HOURS)
It would have been so much easier if he had had the balls to say he wasn't coming back after all.
I knew it was going to be nearly impossible, as he has kids and family a thousand miles away.
I give up on men!
2006-11-14 15:21:14 · 11 answers · asked by toobusytostress 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forgot to add -- he's divorced-three times. The kids are with the ex and her new husband.
Then again - that's what he said.
His number got deleted when i was sitting in my supervisors office being grilled about this crap.
2006-11-14 16:45:46 · update #1
don't give up on men. any more lesbians and gay men and we wont have enough people to populate the world.
find an honest one. i think your problem is that you trust the wrong men. find one that doesn't have a family somewhere else. cause odds are that whoever he started that family with, he made some promises to her too. and i'm sure they didn't include him leaving.
and dont call him anymore. thats just a piece of legal advice. don't worry, it's free. :-)
2006-11-14 15:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by zerohour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say it but sometimes guys are idiots like that. We sometimes tend to think with our pants then with our heads. Look for a guy that treats you right and does nice things for you. He might be the shy one or the quiet one, but once he opens up to you you'll have a great time. Good luck and don't give up just yet!
2006-11-14 15:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by gobeavers2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was all over you like mayonaise till he got what he wanted and didnt' want any more of it . and stopped cold turkey and he thought you would get the hint. however you kept after him searching for him phoneing him. the clue was already infront of you. Take the hint next time. and don't go after him all over the place. what happened happened he got his thrills and you yours and now its time to move on. he's not interested you anymore sorry to say. but thats cutting to the chase. no sense beating a dead horse
2006-11-14 16:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, U know u not gonna give up so dont even waste ya breth on talkin that way lol...*they are just too... valuable ( sometimes)* I guess u should say to hell with him, and just live your life as if he was never existing
2006-11-14 15:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes things eaiser for him. He doesn't have to see you unhappy. Who knows what the jackass told his wife and kids. my question is Why do women date assholes? But then you can never tell until it is too late. Next why dont women date nice honest guys? well i guess they just aren't exciteing and impressive. What's worse? this guy will do it agian.
2006-11-14 15:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by silverwolf872005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont give up on men there are good ones out there...but men just lie they want to inpress you so they lie just like some women lie...maybe you should change the way you talk to a man...like i dogg them, and i tell them the real and if they cant handle it i let them go....well good luck
2006-11-14 15:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by phenix s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmm sounds like all he was after was sex --- he is attached with children --- he is not going to give that up for (pardon me) a fling
forget him delete all his numbers etc and move on -- you should have expected this --- he is attached!!!!!!
2006-11-14 15:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are just like that, we all aren't mind you.
2006-11-14 15:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by lonerforever14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he was just a basterd... not all men lie like that.. you should call up his wife and get her to divorce him..
2006-11-14 15:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey not all men are dog
2006-11-14 15:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by pit_bulldog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋