I've had a girlfriend for a little more than 1 month. And i really liked her. One day, i told her i loved her, and she didn't respond. I told her that i couldnt make her say something she wouldn't really mean. About a week later passed and during school she approached me, saying what i told her during that day. And it was over. About 2 weeks passed, and i'm still not over her. Yeah, i know i have to get over her, but it's hard. i really liked her. she has these away messages. for example:
(i dont know where i stand with you ,
i don't know what i mean to you all i
know is that everytime i see you, all
i want to do is, ---»[ Be with you ]<3 )
and
he's got the smile i fell in love with & the arms i wanna be held in so i guess you could say hes a little more than just amazing *
i just want to clarify if it's meant for another guy or myself.
thanks alot guys. i hope to find out what you guys think.
2006-11-14 15:56:39 · 10 answers · asked by mmontane50 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You told her you loved her after one month !?!
I think you answered your own question. Maybe you move a little TOO FAST.
2006-11-14 15:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by wandering_canuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like you came on to soon and it's frightened her. Take it from a girl; having a guy say that so soon without themselves saying it can really scare them. She might still be coming to terms with it and letting it sink in.
However, I wouldn't wait on her. I'm presuming you're fairly young and new with relationships and there will be more girls for you. It just doesn’t seem like it right now.
And those away messages could be about you but they could be about someone else too. You can like more then one person at a time but right now I think you should just let it sink in with her and then possibly talk to her about in a week or two.
Whatever way it goes, good luck.
2006-11-15 00:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by dancerinthedark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh... im not getting the whole picture you told her you love her and you also told her that you can't make her say things that she didn't mean... but then when she broke up with you, she said the same thing??? well seems to me that its either she doesn't know what she wants or that those messages aren't for you. to find out, easy! ask her! kids who are in relatioinships today don't communicate with their partners and then they ask us who have no idea what is going on. and you need to get over it, you sound like such a nice guy! it is her lost if she is not into you. be happy that you had, instead of never have. good luck
2006-11-15 00:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another guy...absolutely. There are too many chicks out there to fret this typical girl you speak of. Women need to be trained, women need to be told what to do and the ones whom say otherwise are lying or simply attempting to gain control of a relationship. A woman wants a man to take control, know what to do, be nice when need be and always be a man. Go find a chick and tell her what to do...you'd be suprised after practicing this a few times what you'll end up having. Good Luck!
2006-11-15 00:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the girl. my dad said that his brother married my aunt after just two months of dating, but I think that in this case, maybe you answered your own question. You were just too much too fast for her? Maybe she wasn't ready to get serious. It doesn't hurt to ask her stuff still, but just dont be looking like a needy and creepy stalker. Cuz a no is a no, or no more I mean.
2006-11-15 00:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is that if you love and she never responded don't worry about it fine someone else but just take your time and don't move so fast and if they tell you that they love you and your not sure if you love them back, just tell them that you don't feel the same way but you still like that person and when the time comes then tell them.she could have told you that you she loved you back but didnt mean it. see my point its never to late to tell them unless its really flat out to late.
2006-11-15 00:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by gcmscheer2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have been with one girl for about 4 months and she leaves away messages, i think she still might like you, she may be trying to get you to work for her...
2006-11-15 00:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tricky6000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks you fell for her and she does not feel the same about you. She is messing with your head because she knows she still wants you attention
2006-11-15 00:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Texas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to play the field,move on.
2006-11-14 23:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE YOU ONLY KNOW THIS GIRL FOR A MONTH AND
YOU ARE EXPRESS YOUR FEELING OF LOVE. THAT NOT
GOOD. TO SOON. TIME TO MOVE ON AND LEARN FROM
THIS TAKE TIME TO GET TO KNOW THE PERSON BEFORE
YOU START TALKING ABOUT LOVE.
2006-11-15 00:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋