Before you answer, please realize that those three words can freak out some girl/guys if said too early.
2006-11-14 16:05:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whenever it feels right, there's no time limit on love
good luck
2006-11-14 16:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by tesla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a few minute into the first date. Then tell her to relax and that you were only joking these things take time. This will get it out there in a fun way and make it less of a freak out when the feelings do start to arise. Wait to get in synch with her first. If you try to use the 'I love you' card to win her over it will be disastrous, on the other hand if you bide your time and us it when you are both secure with each other then it could work wonders.
Don't do what I did and say it when you come home really drunk because then doubt will be cast as to it's validity even though I had waited the right amount of time.
2006-11-14 16:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although we all want to hear those 3 little words, it isnt something to throw around. If someone says it to me early in the relationship, it makes me think they are not sincere, and it freaks me out. A good time, if a person really means it, might be a few days after you have gone through something like a miscommunication that was resolved, or a problem that was solved. Something to base the words on, when it is from the heart.
2006-11-14 16:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by little1missy1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you, it took my gf and I a month (or 2?) to finally come out. its all in how you are. some people take longer than others. my advice to you is, don't just jump into it as soon as you can. You don't want to get hurt, if its someone you don't think you can handle (vice verse). I would wait longer, so you have a pretty good idea what your getting yourself into (hope that doesn't sound bad) however, just like everyone else is saying, go with what your heart feels. I made the right choice, I'm sure you will too!! Good Luck!!
2006-11-14 16:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by midnight3_love4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is no set guideline for this kind of thing. Everyone is different, so I'm not going to give you a timetable. What I will tell you is this: I once dated a guy who told me " I love you" about a week after we met. Skip ahead a couple of years, and we will celebrate our first wedding anniversary in January. :) All I can say is to follow your heart, even if it sounds corny. If it's meant to be, then only good will come of telling someone those 3 words! All the best to you :D
2006-11-14 16:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by danni_d21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would freak them out .I always say that we should not use those three words when we dont mean it .So we cant say how long we should wait .I mean we have to say it when we really feel love towards the person.
2006-11-14 16:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you actually truly know that you love them. Don't just say it because you think that is what they want to hear. I had a boyfriend who told every girl that he loved them exactly 3 months after their first date, needless to say I didn't take it as being very sincere. But if you are truly sincere about it, then tell them without any hesitation and don't expect to hear them say it back, after all they may just not be ready. You can't really put a date on when to tell someone you love them.
2006-11-14 16:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was maybe 2-3 months for me the first time i said it. It was about 4 or 5 for one of my buddies to say it to his girlfriend. I think some people wait longer. It depends on how often you see them and such and how close you are.
2006-11-14 16:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should say it when you really mean it with no expectations of hearing it right back...and it wouldn't hurt to let the other person know beforehand that "hey, i have something to say, but i want you to know it's okay if you don't...." There is no such thing as "too early" if it is real
2006-11-14 16:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you say i love you when u really think you are and know what love is...it wouldnt freak someone out if they had those strong feelings towards you and WANT to hear you say it....i would say at least 4-6 months of dating
2006-11-14 16:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the couple. If things have been moving in the right direction and you feel like she is thinking it too, then it probably if the right time. Follow your heart.
2006-11-14 16:09:35 · answer #11 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋