I am almost bald, but I don't think women like guys who are bald. Plus, I have a skinny face, a big nose and a long neck. I am a virgin. I am 33 years old. Can it get any worse for me? Or should I just kill myself by driving off into a river or jumping off a bridge?
2006-11-14 15:56:13 · 8 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol i'm bald man (23) and girls love me =D. it's your SELF-CONFIDENCE that is defeating you. I go into a room and already KNOW they will love me... and they do =D. but if you talk like that you will never get a girl. You don't believe in yourself. I stayed a virgin until I was 23 by the way...
After you begin to date girls and get a steady girlfriend, you'll realize that there was NOTHING to be scared of. All of your insecurities are nothing compared to THEIR insecurities of being around you and whether you love them or not when you are in a relationship.
Build your self-confidence... Maybe hit the gym hard, or work on your passions. Girls love a confident guy who can protect her. It just happens that guys who work out have more self-confidence! But anything is good... Power is good... Achievement... A go-getter! If you have the ability to influence others in your life... men, women, everyone... then girls will FLOCK to you and want to be with you!
But ya, it's the CONFIDENCE, not the going to the gym. But being a leader, taking control of your life, and (maybe) getting buffer all will build your confidence!
Good luck =D! go get em!
2006-11-14 16:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, everyone has a different definition of what sexy is. For instance I personally don't like my guys to be really skinny or really overweight... just in the middle. If you're balding, perhaps just brave it and go totally bald. It will look cleaner and nicer than having patches (my stepdad went through the same thing) and plenty of women like bald men. For dress you don't always have to dress stylishly. Even jeans and a t-shirt look perfectly fine. Just make sure the clothes you wear are clean. Perhaps try a new cologne. I don't know one woman who doesn't love a man who smells good. Or even just a nice aftershave is fine as well. Whatever is best for you. As far as your weight... I think if you are comfortable with yourself then that should be well enough. However, if your health is at risk that is when I would advise to lose weight. People should like you for who you are as a person more than your looks. Also, a very big thing for many women is confidence. If you are confident in yourself it will show. Even if you're faking it a little bit, who cares. I wish you the best of luck finding a special lady who makes you happy :)
2016-03-19 08:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Working in retail as many years as I have I have seen lots of people in NJ and NC.
The HAIR..
IMHO women prefer men who are bald or clean shave to "going" bald. I don't notice more single bald men. I have hair and reasonably good looks and my wife of nearly 10 years is divorcing me. She said she would leave me if I ever went bald and she didn't wait for me to even thin out.
To convince yourself women are attracted to bald men, you should hang out at the mall or movies while they are selling tickets look at how many people are there who are bald and have a date. Fashion magazines don't represent 'all' people just a small sample.
The FACE....
I wonder if you resemble either your mother or father? I resemble my father -- and someone found my father attractive or I wouldn't be here.
Worse?
Progress is measured by how much closer you get to your goals. That doesn't mean you'll reach them. Set them within your reach, plastic surgery and new hair my not be realistic but just because you can't have anything you want or everything you want doesn't mean you shouldn't try for something you want. Just make sure its progress. Quiting isn't progress its a way of giving up your goals. Goals without plans become dreams...
2006-11-14 16:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man,iam bald as an eagle,and i went that way back in 1973 and i didnt have any trouble finding girls.ill tell you what to do,go on line at.....bald r us.com,and read some of those statements what men(and some are younger then you)and women are saying about baldness.its all how you carry yourself and be proud about your head.heck i went bald when i was 21,and it didnt stop me.i guess i been this way for so long now,that it doesnt bother me.its like this friend,dress nicely,carry yourself with pride,stay clean,and have a nice personality,and i bet you will have lots of girls around you.and please dont do anything foolish,like killing yourself.if you dont like the patches on your head,just shave your head(lots of women like shaved heads on men..good luck friend and do like i say,please.
2006-11-14 16:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible to attract women if your bald Eg: Billy Zane (yuuum) lead singer of Live - Ed Kowolczky (yuuuuuuuuuuum) need i say more?
2006-11-14 15:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by bonz_a_liscious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Colin Mockery!
What an amazing, funny, BALD, man. Think about this - beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are plenty of people who love all sorts of characteristics of people, whether or not they aren't appealing to you.
2006-11-14 15:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by Teh Questioner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY u....i'm IN LOVE with a bald guy...
Go find your girl,
Good luck
2006-11-14 16:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whats your shoe size?? If your down on yourself then that is what people see you for.. not your baldness!!
2006-11-14 16:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of girls like bald dudes...and even some dont care. can u believe that?? dont do anything stupid....its not that hard to get laid man...find a partner and get jiggie
2006-11-14 16:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋