reply i was out quit job at prision,leaving no income no benifits and opted out for settlement of 32000 which he had to pay25,ooo in debt accured himself during unemployment buying s new 20000 truck and a 5000 lawn mower .I cant even remember the last time we kissed or the desire to,Im tired of the game.I told him this just cant go on.he wants to know why if he finds some kind of work why this wint magically fix thins,frankly i dont believe it fairy magic dust,there has been to many promises made broken of course ,just today he stayed in bed until i left to take my child to school upon returning hes gone for 5 hoursThe trust issue is out the window and today i actually felt fear and worried trying to avoid him.I think five words were spoken today and he just doesnt want to see the problem.I m tired of repeating myself,I just dont see us going the same road anymore,He wants to do what he wants when he wants say whatever even if its the most foul things to anyone and everyone,now what?
2006-11-14 15:27:29 · 5 answers · asked by resigned 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like it's time for you to move on to bigger and better things. You deserve better than that and if he really wants to work things out he'd get his act together. Kick him out or leave. Either way, he's a toxic person and unhealthy for you and you children to be around. Best of luck!
2006-11-14 15:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know. If he refuses to help and act like a partner instead of a dependent, then, you might just have to walk out. You can always seek counseling, but he probably doesn't want to do that. Must be one of those, he doesn't know what he has, till it's gone.
2006-11-14 23:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's self absorbed, lazy and isn't giving any consideration to your feelings.
You are clearly tired of it. You have the right to break it off. If you wan't to try and make it work, tell him that you get into counseling immediately or it's over.
Then, STICK TO YOUR WORD.
Good luck!
2006-11-14 23:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Amy N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he needs to grow up, u dont deserve him
2006-11-14 23:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by krispiemeow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick your finger up his azz
2006-11-15 13:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by gentltailya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋