Ok...first off I've been away from my workplace for almost 6 months now b/c I went to work in a different state for the same company. About 2 months ago I came back home for a week for a vacation. My friends took me out to a bar & I met this hot chick there. She was a lot older than me (I'm 23 she was 36). She said she recently got divorced & that she justs wants some fun. It seemed like she knew all my friends but I've never seen her b4. My friends didn't say anything to me about her or why they all kinda knew her. Anyway, I ended up going home w/ her & I just had some of the best sex I've ever had w/ that chick. I told her I would be leaving soon & that I'd be gone for 2 months. Now, I'm back here to my original workplace & it turns out that this chick is my NEW BOSS!!!! What the f**k?!!!! Isn't this some crazy **** people?!! Oh yeah, it turns out her ex-husband is one of the department managers!!! What do I do? she wants to see me everyday now!!!!
2006-11-14 16:18:54 · 28 answers · asked by Koala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try telling her that although you had a wonderful time with her and wouldn't mind seeing her again you just don't feel right dating the boss. Most companies would frown on it anyways - opens them up to sexual harassment lawsuits.
2006-11-14 16:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by t k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ,sounds like a soap opera to me .Ask around in a round about sort of way what their situation is now? Cause a lot of people split up and don't care . Or could she just be using you for fun and no romance Happened to me when I was 20 and she was 36 and I was just a toy for her to play with and then dropped me like a hot potato
2006-11-14 16:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it"s her ex- husband! and u did say EX then keep on giving her what she wants! cause if u dont ur could kiss your job good by! maybe that's why all of your friends didn't say anything to u about he,.oh what's been done is done and u can't undo it!! but next time find out a little something about the woman first okay!!!!
2006-11-14 16:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! wow so dramatic! well at least now you don't have to worry about getting a raise... ha... but no, i don't think theres anything wrong if you feel comfortable with it, i mean you are having some good sex with her. just don't do it in the office. and separate personal stuff from office stuff... but im telling you, this will end badly bc ppl who sleep with each other should never work together so if you want to do it with her, then you should find another job. if not, you might still get fired cuz u won't sleep with her! good luck... :)
2006-11-14 16:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, this is a very, very bad situation. You've got 2 choices I see.
1. Quit and find a whole new job.
Or
2. Stay with her and pump her brains out like she's never had it before.
If you go with #2, you better brush up on all your sex tricks to keep that broad satified !
2006-11-14 16:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by ausaramenra2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well- if her ex is not your department manager- you may be safe there- but if she is your boss- and you tick her off= guess who can get fired- talk about screwing you way to the bottom!! You have scrambled the egg- and can't unscramble it- you may be her boy toy for a while- who knows- time will tell=- F
2006-11-14 16:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting Fantasy.
2006-11-14 16:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by J T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in trouble now...
Either your boss will sexually harass you into continuing to take care of her needs - or she'll sexually harass you into quitting, or her ex husband will get an attack of jealousy and cause you problems
It's not your fault - you didn't know she'd be your boss.. but you'd be better off finding a new job
2006-11-14 16:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 23:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT'S AWESOME!!
go for it. it's a great way to have fun, get more knowledge about your job, be less likely to be fired, and give people at ur work something to talk about.
Also, that'd make the ex-husband jealous, and that would be so entertaining, cause he couldnt do nething about it!!!
2006-11-14 16:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by qwertyuiop23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋