Now the love of my life has gone as she is moving on with her life to a different man who will treat her better than me. But what i don't understand that the love for her will be here for her is she wants it. But I love my ex with all my heart and soul and one day I was going to marry her to, but now she is gone for good. I guess that it is true what they say about people who finish last then, as i think that i fit in that catorgory right now. Yes I'm a very old fashion man and i do know how to treat a woman and all. But i would like to know how can i win love of my life back and be a happy man for the rest of my life?????Please response to serious answers only...Thank you
2006-11-14 16:26:33 · 8 answers · asked by smurf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL BE HAPPY IS TO LET HER GO
AND MOVE ON. SHE HAS MOVE ON AND IT TIME FOR YOU
TO DO THE SAME. IT DOES HURT WHEN YOU LOVE SOME
ONE THAT HAS GONE. BUT YOU WILL FIND LOVE AGAIN.
SHE OUT THERE.
2006-11-14 16:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel sympathic for you. you should have treated her right the first time. but to answer your question, you should try showing her that you are willing to bend and treat her right this time. show her that everyone deserves a second chance and so do relationships. and notice that i say SHOW not tell... ask yourself that if you are going to get her back, will you be unfaithful? its no point to get her back and later get a divorce or break up! of course now you say you won't be unfaithful and treat her bad, but be honest. you must pass the test yourself before you can ask her to trust you. she was with you and there is a reason why she was with you in the first place. show her that reason again. i don't want to tell you to be a different man bc then ur relationship is doomed to fail, but is there something about you that you know you should change to become a better person? not only for her, but also for you?
but remember: nothing comes great if it was forced. there has to be a reason why you two are not together. faith never plan you two to be together and if you force it, you might even ruin the future. many people seem like they should belong, but sometimes, when they are not ready, they are not ready. try to focus on who you want to become first. once you found out, be that man, and then it will be easier.
hope this helps. good luck.
2006-11-15 00:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Toughy... Do you ever think that maybe, it just wasnt meant to be. Yeah it may not seem that way now, but obviously something went wrong. Even if you didnt do anything and it was just her, she must have wanted to move on, maybe she thought her love of her life wasnt you, and it was the guy she is with now. You just need to let her go and move on, you will find another girl, trust me, and if you are as great of a guy as you say, it will be her loss and someone elses win.
2006-11-15 00:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is hard ive lost mine its like lossing a arm your so used to having right there but its gone now. well look theres not much you can do, once women moved on they move on i know its not what you want but its the truth.now the way you can win her back is opening your heart, let her see the love and tell her truth will have its rewards. i know its hard but you might want to get some female friends and they might take your mind off of things.
2006-11-15 00:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what it feels like to lose love over a crape. I did, however, lose a good friend over a doughnut once. Lot of regrets there (shoulda' fought harder for that doughnut).
2006-11-15 01:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i am on the other side of this situation....in fact, you COULD be my ex....hmmm
well, I put up with my ex's s**t many, many times. and this last time was the last time.
so i guess what I'm saying is, if this is the first time you messed up, you may still have a chance of convincing her to come back. BUT, if things like this have happened repeatedly...well, you could have lost her forever.
ps-
really, is it you??
2006-11-15 00:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her the way you say you do,then talk to her,tell her everything you feel.and if she loves you the same,then dont let her go,dont loose the love of your life cause you think she's gonna be better with someone else.if she loves you too im sure she will only be ok being with you.
if she doesnt,then let her go,try to get over her,i dont think you will forget about her,but time heals all wounds,and if it's mean to be then it will be.
good luck!
2006-11-15 00:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she leave you??? Release the pain and move on with your life. If you really, truly love her, you have to let her go. If she really truly loves you then she will return. You can't force it to happen. You just have to let nature takes its course.
2006-11-15 00:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋