im pretty sure she likes me, shes pretty attractive, especially the last 2 days, her friends tell me to ask her out (ive considered it, but idk if the choice is right), others have warned me shes a bit of a tease( which makes me like her some days and creeps me out on others) i also hear she is unloyal and unfaithful,i do like to have fun but i also think trust is an important aspect of a relationship, i think we'd make a good couple but i dont want to make a mistake, and also to top it off she says she is prude and she doesn know why and she doesnt have any intentions to not be. WHAT DO I DO? WHAT IS THE RIGHT CHOICE? IM MAJORLY CONFUSED!
2006-11-14 16:30:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first of all go by your inner feelings on this girl not by what everyone tells you of her. Though, it does sound like your not sure so either talk to her about what all you have heard about her or just go slow and try to figure it out yourself. I mean its not like your getting married to her or anything so just start talking more and i am sure i will work out one way or another. Sounds like you have good values so go with them.
2006-11-14 16:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trip, think, you said trust is an important aspect of a relationship and she is Unloyal/unfaithful. So, what makes you think you can trust her. You can do better, wait, and look for the girl you think is perfect. If you think she is right for you, think, what makes you think it's going to work if she's unfaithful/Unloyal. I would say everyone deserves better and wait until you have no doubt in your mind this is the one, then you can make your move.
2006-11-14 16:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ask her on a date and see how things go you will never know till you try take her to the movies out to dinner and then maybe go some where where the 2 of u could talk and try to get to know her better don't always listen to what other people tell you
2006-11-14 16:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsummer46341 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it...what have you really got to lose...if it doesnt work out then at least you can have satisfaction in knowing that you tried...if you dont then you would always be wondering "what if"...
Also...you cant listen to what other people say...in these situations you have to find out for yourself...she may not even be like that with you...(thats if its even true to start with)
I say give it a go...you have nothing to lose...if it doesnt work out then just breakup and move on...
2006-11-14 16:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by hello hello! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well pal the best thing to do is to ask her out and take it from there. If she says no, no damage done. If she says yes, this will offer you the opportunity to get to really know this person and find out first hand if the rumors about her are true. Should they be true, just get out quickly. Good luck.
2006-11-14 16:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for her. if u dont end up liking the relationship, u can always end it.
and u really cannot b a prude tease. it just doesnt work. if she would say something like that to u, it really does mean she wants to become unprude, but not in like one night or wickid fast.
it's girl lingo
2006-11-14 16:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by qwertyuiop23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being with her causes you no harm if you dont fall for her.I mean dont get too involved to her so you wont get hurt at the end.
Even unfaithful girls can fall in love ..You try first to be loved by her ,then if you love her is an extra!
2006-11-14 16:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT. you never regret what you try. NEVER!!!!!!! even if she says no you will have learned something from it. Good luck =D
Ask her on a date... not to marry you. It's only a date... an hour or a few hours!
Oh, but ya if you have bad vibes, then don't go for it. Unless you just need the experience (sounds like you might).
2006-11-14 16:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have bad vibes, dont do it. i dated my first husband who was a player and thought i could change him. NOPE. married him since i was pregnant 2 weeks after we got married he cheated on me with ex girlfriend said he had to tell her goodbye. so we divorced took a yr to finalized was only married two weeks when filed for divorce. he has never seen or supported our son who is now 13 and born with asperger syndrome, So dont date her if you dont think you can trush her take it from the old 36 yr old mom of 3 boys
2006-11-14 16:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by tammie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first things first. comfront her, talk to her about it here is no true relationship if there is no real communication. So if she can't talk to you face to face about it then she's not worth your time. And if her friends are telling you to ask her out then she wants to go out with you but to me it sounds as if she isnt very mature in the dating area.
2006-11-14 16:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by ~*mwah*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋