Is it wrong???

Question

So I'm a senior in highschool, and kindof dating a few guys just for fun nothing serious. but one more than the others. And I let them all know that I didn't want anything serious. So the one that I've been dating more than others I guess thought we were boyfriend/girlfriend and freaked out when he found out I'd been hanging out with other guys. and I explained that I just wanted to hang out with lots of people but I wanted to hang out with him and he said that was weird, and that me and him couldn't hang out anymore. Will somone please explain?? I just want to have fun my senior year. Am I in the wrong?

I didn't mean for anyone to get hurt, and I made it very clear to them that I didn't want a boyfriend.
and I'm not a slut!
thanks for all the advice tho, harsh or not I appreciate it!

I didn't mean for anyone to get hurt, and I made it very clear to them that I didn't want a boyfriend.
and I'm not a slut!
thanks for all the advice tho, harsh or not I appreciate it!

Answer 1

No, it's not wrong as long as you are honest with everyone. But not everyone will understand either. We all have different personalities. If you really want to be with that one guy, then for him, you would have to drop everyone else. Is that what you want senior year to be? It's your call. Sometimes we have to make tough decisions where there is not so much a right or wrong, but rather which will be best for me. You're in high school - relax and have fun - at least when you're not hitting the book and getting straight A's - right?

Answer 2

I guess the fact that you didn't tell this guy upfront has upset him because you are seeing other people. You have been upfront with the others so you can see why they don't have a problem with it. If this guy has taken offence and doesn't want to hang out, then ditch him and get someone else. As you said you're in your senior year and you want mess around and have fun and there's nothing wrong with that. You don't want to look back and regret your senior year. Have fun I say!

Answer 3

yes you are wrong. fun does not mean playfully hurt someone's feelings. you have to understand that some people are more sensitive than you and may not be as casual as you are. fun can be partying, volunteering, baking, sleeping. everyone's 'fun' is different, and you have no right to just go out with every guy bc that makes you a slut. even if you have told them this was for fun. sorry to be so harsh but i think you are very low

Answer 4

In future make it clear to all of them that it is a no strings thing and that you see other people. Some guys are going to try to change that, but if you have made it clear before the event you have done the right thing.

Answer 5

Sounds like your two timining or even more. I suggest you just have "fun" with that single guy. Other wise, all of them are gonna get hurt and your gonna be called a "$lut and vvhore"

Answer 6

No, you are not wrong, you want something different than he does. His loss kiddo....don't feel too bad, it's his choice. And as long as you have been clear about what you want out of this, he should man up and relax a bit.

Answer 7

You haven't done anything wrong, sounds like the one just fell a little harder than he should since you did tell him from the beginning that you were "playing the field".

Answer 8

Well it sounds to me like he has the problem sounds as if he is very posessive so don't worry its not your issue to deal with it is his..If he keeps on this way then he is going to have alot bigger problems in years to come.

Answer 9

i dont think ur in the wrong, but u should b more clear about what you want. you probably gave him mixed signals and he got confused.

Answer 10

All depends on your definition of "friends" and "hanging out".