2006-11-14 16:45:27 · 12 answers · asked by lalunaestaaqui 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
partner as in lesbian relationship and of 23 years wow congrats thats longer than most marriage period. Yes if she's the right one by the sounds of it she is 23 years . Go for it. Find a city that allows you to be married. wish you all the best sounds great. happy for you both.
2006-11-14 17:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say yes, provided the love is there. I'm assuming it is. Marriage is special--I think you and your girl need to go the distance here and give it that special meaning. We've all heard people say marriage changes everything (for the worse). I'd be wanting to promise each other you won't let that happen. It will be better than ever!
2006-11-14 17:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by Taramasu2U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Union means a wedding, well after 23 yrs I would hope that wouldn't be that hard for you to decide.
2006-11-14 16:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a union? That sounds really loving.
If you do actually love her, then you've drug your feet far too long. Make with the ring already. What are you waiting for, her 75th birthday?
2006-11-14 16:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why if you live in the US, then if she leaves you she can already file for divorce and get half anyways. 23 years is defiantly a Common Law Marriage.
2006-11-14 16:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not if you plan on staying with her forever and being committed to her then go for it.
2006-11-14 16:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by Queen Burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AFTER 23 YRS YOU NEED TO GIVE HER MORE THAN A UINION YOU NEED TO GET HER A BIG *** RING
2006-11-14 16:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have children together, I should hope so! And do it soon before something happens to you or her . . . for the children's sake.
2006-11-14 16:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, do you WANT to, or is she pushing you to do it? This is not just her life, it is yours to....
Frankly I can't believe, if this is something she has been bugging you about that she kept you around this long....
2006-11-14 17:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Q'S & A'S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definetly !!!
surprise her and make it totally special
good luck
2006-11-14 16:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋