i don't know what to do because i don't know i she will like me back or not i really wish i knew. we have been best friends for about 6 years please help me!!
2006-11-14 17:16:26 · 14 answers · asked by valin l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow that's a really long friendship to mess with. I would suggest keeping quiet unless you truly, madly, deeply are incurably in love and want to get married, have kids, grow old together. Otherwise, you may end up losing your best friend. Then again, talking about it may be the best thing for you both. Feel the other person out subtly. Try asking in a joking way " what would we be like as a couple?" or something like that. It has a 50/50 chance of working, and at least you get to keep most of your dignity :)
2006-11-14 17:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by danni_d21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ruin a good friendship. I once had a friend who was female that I ended up feeling I was in love with her. I used to go out of my way so that our paths would cross often. I would meet her for breakfast before work. We once had a two hour lunch together. I even gave her a ride home a few times to save her money from taking the train.During one ride home we started talking about sex. She told me of her and her boyfriend's fantasies. I made the mistake of telling her my fantasies involved her. I tried to kiss her and tell her I was sorry when she got out of the car. That was the end of our friendship.
2006-11-15 01:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and her are relatively young, I doubt she'd like you in that way back. Usually guy-girl friends that have been friends for a long time since children don't like each other that way. There shouldn't be much harm asking her if she likes you in the way you like her as she would probably gently decline if she doesn't. But if you do go for it, you need to try to understand her decision. Just imagine if you were her and she were you and that she didn't have those feelings for you and that you had to decline them too.
2006-11-15 01:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it worth losing? Are you getting vibes she likes you as well? Keep in mind that would you rather have a long lasting friend? or a short relationship that may not work? More info would help
2006-11-15 01:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by skylersmom2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard one. there isnt a good answer for this i dont think. ive kinda been in the same position,my best friend liked me and i found out and i was pissed off. pissed off because taking friendships further sometimes makes it worse and i wasnt going to risk it,would you? if she meant that much to you stay friends but if you KNOW she likes you even a little bit, i say go for it and tell her. its always best to let out your feelings!
2006-11-15 01:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship is just friendship not a love y dont u understand because i have the same problem i proposed him he rejected me and now i feel y i have proposed him and i lost 1 of my close friend sorry bye dont propose a f u will not get anything
2006-11-15 05:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by sur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand that telling her is a tough thing to do...
you just have to follow what you feel is right...
but if she is your best friend then you more than likely can tell her anything...
which means you can tell her how you feel and no madder what she will understand and take it in maturely...
hope i helped... even a little bit...
2006-11-15 01:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by *MeLiSsA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't want to ruin the friendship that you have but you need to be honest with her about how you feel.
2006-11-15 01:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her how you feel but only if your up to it
send her some chocolates to her house from a secret admirer and just say hello to her when your at school or wherever you are...
2006-11-15 01:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u have to do is just let it be..like hang out with her and then in like 1 week or so ask her out..dont get heart broken..just try to flirt and if it doesnt work out then you will just have to wait..
2006-11-15 01:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by Lover Duckii Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋