2006-11-14 17:11:23 · 15 answers · asked by feeling hopeless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Statutory rape comes to mind. Let her get through high school first. You may think that the 2 of you are in love but wait till she is done high school first. If it is meant to be you will end up married after she gets out of high school. Go get the career you want and make it so when she is done high school you can give her the life she deserves. Let her have fun and do as she wants in high school. If you force the issue now she will just regret all of it later.
2006-11-14 17:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Joey R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well friend, there's a few reasons I can give: the law forbids anyone of age (18+) being in any kind of a sexual relationship with a minor (-18). It's called Statuatory Rape, and it's punishable by law.
Then there's the moral reasons. It's not healthy for a boy of his age to be dating someone so young and impressionable. They are likely not at the same development level, either psychologically or emotionally.
Then there's the common-sense reason. Either party is likely to get hurt in this relationship. And if any member of her family or school decides that they don't like the relationship, they could get him in all kinds of trouble. Just better not to go there at all, since it'd be a shame for either of them to get hurt. Good luck.
2006-11-15 01:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by chanju84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JAIL . Its illegal. Hes a child molester. Rape. I got pregnant at 14 by a 19 yr old and he should of went to jail for all of the above. But he got away with it . and i can tell you now if that ever happens to my daughter that guy would be in jail before he could speak a word.At 14 that girl is looking for a father figure . Where is her daddy. she needs true love from a parent . not some 18 yr old who wants what is in her pants .
2006-11-15 01:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Generally, 14 is below the age of consent. Statutory rape is a prosecutable offense.
Can't your friend find a nice college girl?
2006-11-15 01:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by mr_mumbles_nyc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if there are state laws that even permit that.. good luck to that, I'm guessing it's a bad idea, tell him to wait till she's 18! If they really love each other they'll wait! lol
2006-11-15 01:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she is just a little girl. Second of all it is AGAINST THE LAW. It is called STATUTORY RAPE. Where are this girls parents; for that matter where are his parents? I'll pray for this situation because it is so wrong.
2006-11-15 01:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by valducci53 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS THIS THING CALLED STATUTORY RAPE. PARENTS OF 14YR OLD FEMALES USE IT AS A TOOL TO KEEP GUYS THAT ARE TO OLD FOR THEIR DAUGHTERS AWAY FROM THEM. IT CARRIES ABOUT A 7-14 YEAR SENTENCE WITH IT. AND, YOU REGISTER AS A SEX OFFENDER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. OH YEA, AND PARENTS CAN USE THIS TOOL ANY TIME DURING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR DAUGHTER. AND LETS SEE, THAT 4 YOURS OF NEVER PISSING THEIR DAUGHTER OFF, HOPE YOUR GOOD AT BEING GOOD, BECAUSE YOU'D BE SURPRISED HOW REAL COOL PARENTS CAN CHANGE WHEN YOU'VE PISSED OFF THEIR DAUGHTERS.
2006-11-15 01:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by onejinjer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he can get locked up! enough said! It's illegal and considered statutory rape. It's best that he break it off with her until she turns 18.
2006-11-15 01:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he wants to go to prison as she is under age and he will be charged with being with a minor and on probation for life as a sexual offender.
2006-11-15 01:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that is like sexual herassment and he is yes to old for her..i can see if she was 16 n he was his age but no thats just not right
2006-11-15 01:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lover Duckii Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋