Hello I am a single parent of 3 and have been out of work for a little over 2 months. I got fired cause I called in to let them know that my daughter was sick. They told me that I did have to come back to work. Now I am having a big problem cause I am behind $461.00 and I can not afford to pay my light bill and right now .They put one of those notices on my door so my lights will be turned off any day now. I am in need for some help and do not know where to go. I have called around to try to get help but I had no luck. if anyone out there know a quick way that I can help please let me know because I hav been crying for the past 2 days .. I just do not want my kids to suffer for something there mother should have been able to take care of..
2006-11-14 17:12:32 · 10 answers · asked by virgoatx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First thing in the morning, call your electric company and let them know your situation. You may be able to get the bill temporarily held off. They understand.
Getting another job has to be a pretty big thing right now. It is coming up Christmas. All retail stores are hiring for at least part time. Get out there and apply. I know, it is hard to do that, but you have to.
There are aid agencies on local and state levels. Aid to dependent children is one of them. I would suggest your church group first (they are less likely to want to take your kids away). Obviously you have already asked your family. I too wonder where the heck is the kids' dad??? What about him helping here? They are his kids, no matter what your current marriage status.
Do not get caught in the mire of guilt. You can do it. Show your kids that their mother can fight her way out of this. Yeah, it is scary. My mom was a single mom (no alimony or child support), I have been a single dad.
Best wishes and do check out those agencies.
2006-11-14 17:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by NeoArt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your going to have to use all you personal resources to help loan you money until you can get back on your feet. I would ask for more than what you need to buy yourself a little more time than what you need, for instance you say you need $461.00 dollars. Your goal should be about $1500.00 dollars. You can do this by asking several different people small amounts to total up to you goal amount. Who do you ask ? Family members, ex-coworkers, friends. You can always go to your church and speak with your pastor in private. If your not a member of a church, you can go to any church with your kids one Sunday for help, that's what churches are there for, to help those in need in the community. Although times are hard, its not the end of the world for you(only $461.00). You may want to seek advice to see if you can take some action against your former employer to either regain you job or get some type of severance for firring you.
Good luck.
P.S. Make a list of all the people you borrowed money from and the loan amount next to their name so you don't forget to pay some one back.
Once again, good luck and GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
2006-11-15 01:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by ausaramenra2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a church and ask for help. Many of them will pay your utility bills directly. (Never ask them for cash...bring the actual bills with you and ask them for help).
Call the utility company and explain your situation. Explain that you are trying to get help, and ask for more time. Get on their program where your bill is less because of your limited income.
Find your strength. You are a very strong woman to have raised those kids by yourself! Sign up with several temporary agencies. Be willing to work every day when they call you. I signed up with 12 at one time. I worked every day, and was able to pay my bills.
Sell things that you really do not need more than electricity and food right now. Pawn shops offer cash for televisions, DVD's and players, etc. It is better than sitting in the dark or going hungry.
Blessings to you.
2006-11-15 01:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Blkshoes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so Sorry this has happen to u!! Call 211 see if they can tell u of some one who can help u right away! are go to your church an ask for help! also u could go to work for a Temp Serv. I wish i could help in some kind of way but i really can't! All i can do is Pray for u ! and may God Bless You!!!
2006-11-15 01:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where is there father? does he work or pay child support? To much to take on yourself, Can your family help you out do they know of your situation? Try the churchs in your area talk to a priest or minister, even the police department have ways to help you, talk to a local offecer, help hotline is good also to refer you for basic help like rent and food, good luck, will pray for you.
2006-11-15 01:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by sidekick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can try going to churches. Alot of times they can offer assistance with your utilities, food, as well as rent. They may be able to direct you to some other organizations in your area. There are always organizations out there to help but you must start early
2006-11-15 01:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a catholic charity, the salvation army or a community action agency...Good Luck.
2006-11-15 01:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by heyitsmedarra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to Hot Jobs at Yahoo
2006-11-15 01:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
can you ask your family for some help and tell them you will pay them back whe you can it might take awhile but they will be a little more understanding
2006-11-15 01:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by rk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm if you have some siblings you can move in with them looking for a job like a police or fbi worker
2006-11-15 01:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Silva 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋