was seeing ths guy and one day I text messaged him about my earrings, and then left him a voicemail explaining that i needed to know if they were at his house,because i was wearing them to go out, he text messaged me five minutes later and told me not to call him anymore, because he did not like me and that he would tell my sorority sisters about our relationship...and he would tell other people as well, and that I should know that he has a girlfriend and she is a member of my sorority(keep in mind that i did not know he had a girl,so the next day I get a call(from his best friend) who is also one of my sorority sisters calls me and invites me to an event that he was hosting? And I 'm like this is weird, because she has never called me..So What do you think was the cause of his/her behavior? do you think she knows something, or maybe he told her something,?Or was it a coincidence that she calls me asks me to go out with her after I ahdn't heard from her in over eight months
2006-11-14 18:55:50 · 4 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just to add a few more details, I heard that the guy I was dating and his best friend whom had called me fell out, and she talked about getting a clip, when invited to one of his frat functions(whatever that means) so obviosly she's mad about something, I know it's not about other women,....but when I did call her back after I got her voicemail, she lied and said that the she didn't have anyone to go with, and that it was over,...so..I don't know what to think, one is it a coincidence that she called me right after me and the dude got into it, and two, why would she lie about the event being over?
2006-11-14 18:56:22 · update #1
I got a feeling that she was or still is involved with the guy you were seeing. Maybe he realized that he was twotiming her by going out with you and didnt want her to get mad or scared that she would get mad at him therefore scatter his or ''the secret'' on all ears.
If you feel comfortable and couldnt care less about this whole relationship thing,then I suggest you go to the function and act nothing (has) happened.
One last possibility,she was sent to you by him to find out what you think of him and how well you can keep a secret.
Either way,forget about it and keep your head up.
2006-11-14 19:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this will be a lesson to have some sense of respect for yourself. Then other's will treat you with the same respect. How did you expect to be treated, like Santa on Christmas Eve?
2006-11-15 03:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1, no coincidence 2. who needs him?
2006-11-15 03:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i wouldn't go to the function i would think she is mad...
2006-11-15 03:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by lilflashinchick15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋