i am seeing a guy who is 30 years old. i am 23... we have excellent communication & great understanding.. we get along really well... but we both belong to different cultures, i belong to indian culture and he belongs to the western... this bothers him allot... is this the right reason to go our seperate ways ???
2006-11-14 23:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, It sure isn't!!! But if that is what he thinks, so be it...MOVE ON....Don't waste your time!!!!! Time is of an esscence!!!!
2006-11-14 23:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by kitten30fl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would probably bother me a lot to. I mean white guys should have white chics, and black chics should have black guys.
I'm being serious here...........mixed marriages or relationships don't really work. The reason WHY he's bothered is because you are culturally different and you are of a different colour.
I know....I was married to an Asian for 17 years......it doesn't work sweetie.
2006-11-15 07:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by wombat2u2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, unless one of you tries to influence the other, cannot accept the difference!
Cultural differences can be a great challenge. Accepting this challenge will in the end be very fruitful. I talk from my own experience, my wife being from Africa and I from Europe (and our difference in age is much bigger than yours).
2006-11-15 07:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by corleone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, so what yall come from different back grounds. You say yall get along well,, keep trying. Remember love will find a way
Peace Out,
Dicky L Jones
2006-11-15 08:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dicky Jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because indian people like to marry only indians, he probably knows that, so if your parents know, they won't allow you to date or marry him. Knowing that, will send him away. He does not want his heart to be broken later, so he leaves you now. You should let him go and date someone your parents like. I've never met an indian who disobeyed her parents. I don't understand it, cuz its your life, not theirs, however, that's how it is in indian culture. So please let him go and don't try to get him back, you will only hurt him in a long run,
2006-11-15 07:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he tries to change you, then dump him. If you can appreciate and learn about one anothers' culture, then things should be great.
2006-11-15 07:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is the right one dont let hom get away culture difference can be overcome
2006-11-15 07:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by peter r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to change your believes and vise versa go your own way. If the relationship starts with doubt, just let it go.
2006-11-15 07:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is the great understanding then! can't see it if he does not except you the way you are.
2006-11-15 08:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...sometimes, individual differences can be too much....besides, you are an indian so better find another indian guy..
2006-11-15 07:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by bluewitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋