Been with this guy for a year and been having major problems lately. We have been doing long distnace (and this is like across the world long distance), for over 2 months now but even before I left, things were beginning to get rocky. We love eachother a lot and although most couples have trust issues long distance, ours is communication. I totally know I am at fault most of the time, because he really is a great bf. But whenever I get angry, I take it out on him and then realize it and apologize and its become a trend, set by comfort. However, this last month apart has gotten really bad and now he doesn't want to keep trying although I now know I will back with him in 2 months. Unfortunately till then, I don't want us to not talk but don't know how 2 make him understand.Seems he has convinced himself it will never work out, although now,I finally understand my mistakes but cannot show it to him if he doesn't let me. I have said sorry a dozen times and tried everything, what now?
2006-11-14 23:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by EMMA218 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seems like you are blaming everything on yourself girl, and you have gotten into a pattern of apologising everytime, if he thinks you are going to keep doing this he will keep pushing itto see how far he can go with it. If your away and you are going to be back in two months have fun for yourself, tell him you will see him when you get back and see where it will go from there. maybe he will realise after no communication for a while just how much he wants you. I know you love him and it will be hard but give it a go.
2006-11-14 23:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sugarpuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
used to take out my crap on others and couldn't stop until my thinking changed. i had to get professional help. i would say sorry a lot and do the same old thing. It was a habit, and i needed help to break it. As long as i didnt change the situation only got worse.
2006-11-15 07:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space and if he still wants you then he will let you know. If it is too hard to work things out then it was probably not meant to be.
2006-11-15 07:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't come back, find somebody who doesn't bring out your anger. Somebody else may bring out the best in you.
2006-11-15 07:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things always have a way of working out so dont wori be happy
2006-11-15 07:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it, learn from it and let it go.
2006-11-15 07:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU CAN'T GET ALONG NOW.
YOU NEVER WILL .
TRY NOT TO GET ANGRY
2006-11-15 07:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋