Okay my ex dumped me a two months ago. She has been in therapy for her father passing away and her low self esteem. When she broke up with me, she said she needed time to figure her own life out before she could be in a relationship with anybody. She apologized and asked me not to hate her because she thought we had good potential, but the timing of us sucked because of her she said. So we still keep in touch every now and than, but I think she keeps in touch just to let me down easy here. I don't know though. She emailed me last week and asked me how I was doing and said she hoped everything with me was going well and to drop her a line whenever. So I replied in an email and said hello and small chat... a few days later. I get in an accident three days ago and I txt her cause she was the closest person I knew to the accident. She does not reply at all. SO I am thinking that she doesn't really care? And I am thinking of not really talking to her nemore cause we both moved on?
2006-11-14 23:48:56 · 16 answers · asked by cds1666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you don't know why she didn't contact you back. Maybe she hasn't received the message. Don't assume and ruin what friendship you have. Talk to her and tell her your concerns. It could have been a misunderstanding that is blown out of proportion.
2006-11-14 23:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try contacting her again, just in case she didn't recieve the message. If it turns out she did, then it sounds like she's just too caught up in her own life and she doesn't have anything to give you right now. It's up to you how long you're willing to wait for her but I don't think it will do you much good putting your life on hold. She needs to prove herself as a friend by being there for you before you even think about getting back into a relationship with her. If she can't be there for you as a simple friend, then it doesn't look good. Give her another chance but if she doesn't seem interested in give and take, then move on.
2006-11-15 07:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow...if she didnt reply at all I think that I would just move on. Seems to me that even if she didn't want to be in a relationship but wanted to be friends still that she should have been there for you...thats what friends are for. I think that you have been very understanding and supportive to her through this trying time in her life, and I think that she should be that same person for you, and she isnt. I cant tell you whats going on in her head, but she isnt acting like a friend, or a person who has hopes of being with you again someday.
2006-11-15 07:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sorry about your accident. she may received the email or has not been on the computer. I am sure she will call you soon. it is hard losing a love one. I lost my husband two years ago after 35 years and it is hard. you miss them. we all need time to heal. some do it right away and some heal longer. just remember the song what are friends for. in good times and bad times.
2006-11-15 08:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered making use of the word "friend"?
Just because you aren't in a relationship with this woman doesn't mean you can't have a chat or mail each other now & again.
Although if you're not mature enough to be able to be friends then blanking her is probably the best thing you could do for her.
2006-11-15 07:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by madamspud 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that she took the easy way out, and used her life as an excuse to get rid of you. If she loved you she would come to see you or call you after your accident. Women can be evil. Sorry that you are enduring all of this alone, I hope that one day you will find your true love and she will not matter anymore.
2006-11-15 07:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by twinki 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think if she broke up with you and you feel the way you sound you feel, then you don't need to think of it as rude, but just moving forward...
Hope you are OK after your accident. Hope you feel better soon. Take care...
2006-11-15 07:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by TL 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
she is going through hard times however you need to make a calling here is she using you as a friend to be there for her only when SHE needs someone other wise she isn't there for you its hard but you need to let go of the past and move on
2006-11-15 07:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by precious_52806 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is it possible she hasn't read your text yet. i wouldn't hang on too long, maybe she is messed up, and needs help, and by the way, what does your heart say, do you love her? do you want to be there for her? only time is going to tell with this one......God bless ya
2006-11-15 07:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by CINTHIA C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...or is it possible that she never received the text message?
Hope all is ok after the accident now
2006-11-15 07:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by truthwalker7 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋