How can i get talking to her without:
a) Coming across as a pervert?
b) Coming across as a rapist?
c) Coming across as a weirdo?
d) Coming across as cheesy?
Also, how can i be sure she doesn't have an Arnold Schwarzenegger boyfriend working out in the backroom? Should i ask before working my magic?
And is it safe to get talking when i'm panting like a c*nt on the treadmill?
Thanks.
2006-11-14 23:28:42 · 16 answers · asked by bobby t 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her if she would like to go for a drink and a chat with you after the gym.
2006-11-14 23:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just make friendly conversation - there's always something to comment on in a gym.
If she's very fit, then no, don't pant like a whatsit on the treadmill while trying it on.
If she's only averagely fit, then go on the machine next to her and say something like" It doesn't get any easier, does it?" or "why do we do this to ourselves?"
Or wait for the appearance of a "character" to laugh at - you must have at least one of them - too short shorts man, sweaty man with no towel, grunts like a pig when exercising man, wears a powerlifters belt to do his biceps curls man, you really shouldn't be wearing a thong in public woman, we only come here to chat and take up all the exercise bikes ladies, uneccessarily hairy armpits woman, old bloke who shouts randomly, gang of teenagers who think they're all Arnie but obviously don't know what they're doing, sad old tart who fancies the instructor, overly keen trying to remember the moves from the last yoga class wierdo in the matted area...
If she is very fit and you can't make a converstaion while trying to keep up, wait until she's using the weights machines, then go over and look like you want to use the machine after her. Ask if you can work in and if she'll spot you - she'll like the fact that you don't mind a female spotting you. If you're really luck, she might touch you when she corrects your form!
Anyhow, start off chatting, then you can find out the ansers to your questions: is she straight/ gay/ single/ remotely interested in you - over a couple of weeks. Even if you don't pull, you might well make a friend!!!
2006-11-15 07:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by lickintonight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say Hi!
Then maybe follow it up by "How long have you been working out here?" then let the conversation flow. Start with small talk before you start asking direct questions like fancy a drink sometime or do you have a boyfriend.
2006-11-15 07:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by loopylucy81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her " I'm not a pervert or a rapist, a weirdo or cheesy, I don't know if you are attached to an Arnie in the back room, but I can run like hell anyway.......so how about it honey ??? How about that soda pop I promised you ??"
2006-11-15 07:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by wombat2u2004 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just say hi! As long as you are not talking to her breasts you will not look like a perv, and a rapist would just skip the talking part. The treadmill may not be the best place to srike up a conversation.
hope this helps
2006-11-15 08:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start flexing your biceps in front of her while she's on the treadmill and kind of look at her over your shoulder as you're doing it.
This works better if you're wearing a tight grey sleeveless muscle shirt.
2006-11-15 08:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Survey her first for her behaviours, her routines, benefits, and problems.
Once you have determined the benefits outweigh the problems, plus know her behaviours and her routines.
Then devise a good plan along with good dialogues, run simulated test on those dialogues, after that done a phase by phase execution of the plan.
2006-11-15 07:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by E A C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just smile at her to see her response first, check that she doesn't have a ring on her finger and then go over and start chatting, be natural. ask her if she has a boyfriend maybe! i think its safe to look like a c**t yeah, does she not look a little bit of a c**t when she's working out? i know i sweat like a b****. lol
2006-11-15 07:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by CazW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her, but don't be obvious about wanting to be with her till you see how things go.
PS: As for the arnold bf, just run if you see some guy coming over that looks like he wants to kill you... XD
hope that helped! good luck!
2006-11-15 07:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you flirt a bit, she'l soon let you know if she's single or not. Just go over and ask if uve left your bottle of water on her machine? Worked on me !!
2006-11-15 07:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by wickedsoul132 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋