My boyfried and I have been together for 3 years. Recently a female coworker kissed him and he told me it was unavoidable. He looked and sounded really guilty because he felt like he cheated on me. She kissed him, is that cheating? Also, he lied to me about blazing (marijuana). He told me he quit but hed always been doing it. So he broke up with me and told me he'll come back to me once he quits his job cuhz of the female coworker and once he quits blazing. Is he going to come back? Do i wait for him and for how long? Cuhz i really love him.
2006-11-11 19:19:03 · 18 answers · asked by coollady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really loved him you should have forgiven him instead of allowing him to break up with you...from what you wrote it doesn't sound like he really loves you if he was so quick to break up over something this stupid...did he even put up a fight for you? Don't wait around...asking yourself if you should wait just go to him and have a real talk with him and see if you can salvage the relationship
2006-11-11 19:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by @ubreY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Co worker Kissed him ok. Marijuana and lying on top if it is the pits. Now why can you not see that this man is a sexist a looser that is why he goes for marijuana. Get your self together and go looking find a decent man there are many out there to be discovered Find someone who will love you respect you and be faithful to you
2006-11-11 19:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't wait for him! He lied to you about cheating and drugs. I'm sure this women did not threaten his life unless he kissed her. So, if he leaves this job, is he going to do the same thing at a next job. You do not need this in your life. Move on.
2006-11-11 19:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Angrygirl5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in quite a pickle. But don't worry, I believe you shouldn't wait on him. Unfortunately those types of behaviors rarely change in men. I cheated on an x-girlfriend once, and left the x for the other girl.. I realized it was stupid, wrong, and childish.. But I found the woman of my life, and wouldn't do anything to 'jeopardize' our relationship. Just be friends with guys, and get to know one before you date them.. :) GOOD LUCK
2006-11-11 19:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He lied about his drug habit and he lied about cheating on you. (Yes, kissing is cheating, and no, kissing is not unavoidable.) So you tell me: Should you wait for a lying cheater, and how much of your life should you waste waiting for him to be finished banging his co-worker and frying his brain with drugs? Only you can answer that.
2006-11-11 19:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no, man.
waiting for him is like waiting for grass to grow.
if he moved on so can you
if he comes back, he better be ready to start things fresh.
everyone deserves to have a life, even more so after a relationship turns sour.
especially if the guy treated you like crap, don't even blink!
get up and find someone that will treat you decent or pamper yourself for awhile.
not all guys are worth waiting for, even the ones who are sometimes need to see that you can stand on your own two feet.
2006-11-11 19:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Rozene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT'S CHEATING. She kissed him... he didn't do a damn thing about it... so that's cheating. It takes TWO to kiss.
You shouldn't come back to him. He has just lost you. If you want him back, he should work hard to do so. Don't make it easy on him.... because he hasn't made it easy on you.
2006-11-11 19:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah dear wait for him for 1 or 2 month and if does not return then you know what you have to do. all the best and i hope that he will come back.
2006-11-11 19:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope i woulodnt wait for him, because he left you, come on now, he went back to his work with this coworker that kisses him, why do that to yourself, you know that hes been having sex with her, atleast he dumped u first, hubby left me, and cheated on, me and came back to me after that, but this is your chance dont take him back, because it will happen again! good luck its never to late to start over...
2006-11-11 19:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lied, he cheated, he does drugs! You should be thankful that he's out of your life!
2006-11-11 19:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋