My husband and I recently filed for divorce bc i found out he was cheating, he said he loves her so i said he had to go if he wouldnt give her up. So anyway she works with him and she also left her husband. Here is the kicker her husband also works with the same company and is a manager and my husbands main boss friend. I havent told this man I have no hard evidence just a statement from my husband to me and another friend of mine that he was having an affair with her. without proof not sure if he will believe me. Although I happen to know that my husband and her were out of town together this past valentines. Any suggestions?
2006-11-11 19:23:23 · 12 answers · asked by cdsmiles024 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Will this affect any alimony you get? If he loses his job will you lose too?
Getting revenge is not always as sweet as it seems. Make sure you know what your doing.
2006-11-11 19:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business. You made the right decision to divorce him. He and his lover are making a big enough mess on their own without you in the mix.
Your best revenge is to be happy and sucessful in a new relationship when the time is right.
Rarely does a relationship like your husband is in works out. He and she will have Karma take care of them.
You did your best and left him. You don't deserve a cheater.
And she doesn't know this........but if he is cheating with her.....he will eventually cheat on her.
Bravo to you for moving on.
2006-11-11 19:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my ex in a similar way. The funny part (after I could see the humor in it) was that the whole 8 years they stayed together she was seeing up to 4 other men. He had no idea until my daughter saw the tramp with another man at the mall. One of the other men worked for my ex and he still didn't know she was cheating on him! I figured what goes around comes around. He deserved to be made a fool in front of everyone at work, and he deserved to be hurt as bad as he hurt me. There was no way I was telling him about it!
2006-11-11 19:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I STRONGLY URGE YOU to take the high ground. I know it's devastating that your husband has left you, especially for someone else, but trying to enact vengeance may go poorly for you. This is a man you love/loved, and hurting him will NOT help you... and in fact might possibly hurt you. Trust that life will take care of your vengeful feelings..... time wounds all heels...
2006-11-11 19:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by DONALD M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 19:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by swetha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. It sucks being the one in the dark he has a right to know what is going on too. If he doesn't believe you then atleast you tried.
2006-11-11 19:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a dish best served cold and unexpected.... but you must do it at the right time. Be careful what you wish for.
2006-11-11 19:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand what it is you want to tell the other husband - surely he knows that his wife has left him?
2006-11-11 19:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can hook up with the man, then you can all get together and compare notes.
2006-11-11 19:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by Dutch T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just drop it
Why r u seeking revenge, it won't do anyone any good
2006-11-11 19:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋