what should i do?

Question

me and my best friend, at the end of last year, started dating because we loved each other very much, we lived far apart but it was because of how we felt it lasted this long. She broke up with me a few weeks ago, for many reasons that were small and could be fixed, i know she still loves me but she said her heads really mixed up right now and she doesnt know what she wants, shes going to uni next year and i think that may be a factor in it. I get really jealous when shes talking to anyone else. I dont know what to do, do i give her time and see what happens and just be her friend, or do i just leave her alone? what would you guys do?

Answer 1

I wouldn't push the issue to much cause if u do she will start to feel pressure from u and that wouldn't be good at all. I have been here myself so I kinda know how she feels. Give her some space and just let her know that u do love her and u will always be there for her no matter what happens. #1:She will appreciate this and #2:She will know how u feel about her right at the get go. If its love between u both then it will work itself out but dint get upset with her if she calls and says that she is dating around. Just stand ur ground and tell her that all that u want is for her to be happy. Also if this were to happen find u someone and tell her about it and see how u both feel about the 2 of u seeing other people. Sometimes that helps each other see how much they really care for one another. Hope this helped.

Answer 2

She probably has a crush on someone else. You both are young and shouldn't be tied down so early, experience life with other people. Give her space, there is nothing more attractive than the unattainable.

Answer 3

If she's mixed up there's another person involved...what else would she be mixed up about where your concerned?