like whenever we go for a movie my boyfriend would prefer to put his hand on my leg than hold my hand...
2006-11-11 23:05:46 · 20 answers · asked by dawink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If all we guys were to be honest. It is really in the hope that you will reciprocate!
2006-11-11 23:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all mental. He like most guys are sexually driven, and a lot of guys think well toned thighs are very sexy. Just talk to him about it and let him know that you appreciate the fact that he thinks your sexy and that he wants to be with you and no some other women, but you are a women and not a horny school girl so he needs to balance his lust with his love.
He needs to hold your hand and do all the things that lets you know that he thinks of you as more than some sexual Goddess....haha
Most times many people don't realize that they are making their partner feel like this. If that doesn't work than every time he reaches for those beautiful sexy thighs, just tell him to hold the popcorn, or drink, or something, keep his hands full. But don't give him anything to hold in his hands until he reaches for the thighs... eventually he'll get the point and then want to talk to you about it.... Trust me
Hope this helped
2006-11-11 23:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by qwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is because guys get the sensation and excitation by touching or rubbing ladies' thighs. Thighs are considered as 1 of the sensitive areas. And they're more softer and sexier as it's very near the vagina, so they feel extremely aroused doing that on girls. It goes the same for neck areas too.
2006-11-11 23:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont let guys rub my legs for their pleasure anymore since an unfortunate incident when I was wearing a pair of synthetic slacks. Too many were sticking themselves to walls on the static energy.
2006-11-11 23:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it has to do with the age old taboo's of where a guy can touch a woman. Holding your hand is something he can do anytime, but putting his hand on your thigh is both more personal and erotic in a way.
2006-11-11 23:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by lomoe2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the guy really, you can tell he's really into you if he holds your hand, he wants to get to know you better and hold you close. If he puts his hand on your thighs he's letting you know he wants you, he thinks your sexy. You an tell alot about a guy from this. it can just depend on their mood though.
2006-11-11 23:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by barbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my bf dose the same thing to me i asked him one time and he said cause it shows others around us that he digs me and that holdinghands others cant really see but by placing his hand on my thigh and rubbing stimulates him and shows others that he wants me with out doing it there and then and i also must say it turns me on espcially when he rubs the upper thigh
2006-11-11 23:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
like most guys do...... they need to connect... most of the men needs to connect in the physical aspect while women connects on the feeling. the toucinhg of the thighs a sense of connection and belongingness... so let him do it or assure him that you wont let go...... that you love so much... most guys needs that....
2006-11-11 23:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually he wants to put his hand BETWEEN your legs, and he's hoping you'll get the hint and oblige.
2006-11-11 23:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Its takes something for a guy to think of of intercourse. only even by ability of flicking ur hair, he will think of of intercourse. yet there should be some form of charm for him to have such innovations. for the time of lecture?? lmao. =] ,Katy.
2016-10-21 23:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by montesi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋