a friend of mine came n proposed me on the phone. when i saw i din like his appearance.more over hes 24 n im16 . so i said no. but rite now i feel wat i did is rong . he was crazy about me.i can feel pity 4 him bt cannot force myself to love him. rite now i feel restless. i cannot speak about this to my mom or dad. i need sum ones advice. kindly help me . wat should i do
2006-11-11 23:58:35 · 12 answers · asked by natty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i feel very bad i feel asif i had hurted him badly
2006-11-12 00:18:24 · update #1
yep sandy i returned home after i told him no. he n his friend were racing the bike they were like as if they gonna knock me down on the road. im scared
2006-11-12 00:30:15 · update #2
YOU ARE 16 YEARS OLD! NO IS THE RIGHT ANSWER. Oh no, are you from one of those countries that arranges marriages? Poor you. Glad I live in the USA. Good luck. If you can't talk to your parents about these types of situations, I feel really sorry for you. Good luck.
2006-11-12 00:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number 1 you are only 16 and a 24 year old is a little old for you you will have loads of boyfriends before you find the right guy to marry. give it a chance
Number 2 why did he propose over the phone? That is a no no. It is a very special thing to be propsed to. it should always be in person.
Number three You should never marry out of pity
The restless feeling is because you are thinking you will never be loved
wait a few years, hope this helps
2006-11-12 00:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by tonka3me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are way to young for a 24 year old. Second of all, your only 16, most 16 year olds go on appearance only anyhow. Don't be so hard on yourself and be glad you turned him away, you would have gotten yourself into alot of trouble with your mom and dad. Tell your friend that you want to be just that "friends" but that you are too young for anything more than that. Good luck sweetie and don't try to grow up too quickly, believe me it comes fast enough:)
2006-11-12 00:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he's crazy about you does not mean that you have to be crazy about him. Tell him you want to be friends with him because of your age difference. If he doesn't accept that, then stay the heck away from the perv. Also don't feel pity for him girl, if he had death in the family or pet, then feel sorry for him. Just because he looks pitiful and acts pitiful, don't feel for that. He has to clean his own sorry self up all by himself. Not you or anyone for that matter. Good luck with him....
2006-11-12 00:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan on acquiring a DNA attempt on your self and the toddler quicker or later. as quickly as that's proved which you're actually not the daddy, then look into removing your final call from the toddler's beginning certificates. you'll be able to desire to try this in case you would be held in charge for newborn help in the adventure that your relationship ends. you would be required to pay help till the toddler turns 18.
2016-10-17 04:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by woodworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was right. 16 is far too young to be even considering marriage. Maybe by 20 you will have more experience, but even then, go carefully amoungst those who fall crazy in love with you. Especially if it is on the phone.
2006-11-12 00:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by muchmemory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. very bad situation! But see take an example of ASH,don't many boys love her like anything?! but that don't mean she's gonna marry all,or in your relation,she's not gonna love all? there will b many people in your life,sum may hate u sum may love u. But choice is yours and remember u shud never disturb yourself with all such things.
BYE!
2006-11-12 00:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this 24 yr old man can not find a woman to be with you don't need to be with him he is sick and need to get help for him self you need to find a good boy since your still growing n life and you need to enjoy stuff like jr senior prom your last yr in school and ppl your age
2006-11-12 00:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by trashdog1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loves it to it suggest to gate married him, but he must to came and talk to your parents about this(if he really want to married you) and then everything will be easy.If you don't loves him you should tell him that and to go far away, to pass over this.This is what i can tell you, I hope it will help you.
2006-11-12 00:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by alina a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u love him and ur mum and dad is ok with it then u should move on but if ur too young to get married yet wait about 2 more yrs till ur 18
2006-11-12 00:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋