I love him he says he loves me we have a good relationship sex couldn't be better but he has tons of porn pictures naked girls in every pose poss on computer.I said thats disrespectful Im sitting next to you and I feel like your looking for someone else answerd (NO SILLY I LOVE YOU we are goodtogether I just like porn no big deal its not like I'm touching or emailing them )BUT he use to type comments like ooh thats so sexy or thats a very nice p***y then I confronted him told him how that hurts my feelings/just wrong We argued he no longer makes comments but still surfs 2/3 times a day . Should i not feel threaten by that? Maybe he doesn't love me? Any men out there help me from a mans veiw PLEASE.
2006-11-11 23:45:03 · 10 answers · asked by missrosie4you 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From a man's point of view, you should not feel threatened by his addiction to porn. It's natural for heterosexual men to look at beautiful, naked women.
Then again, there are many men who don't feel the need to resort to surfing the net for porn and chatting with naked women. When the cow's in the barn, why buy milk?
From a psychological perspective, he's probably not satisfied with certain aspects of his life and he feels that pornography completes him. Needless to say, that type of behavior is generally not conducive to a relationship. Those with addictive tendencies will always find another addiction, which will inevitably end a relationship.
But, I digress.
Bottom line: It is not a matter of whether or not he says he loves you. If he continues to feed his addiction despite knowing your feelings, then you deserve better. Don't sell yourself short.
2006-11-12 06:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by waterlogged 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Honey, you probably will only get one or two helpful answers from the men. I am a woman who has the same type of situation. Mine watches it on t.v. I would be furious if he was actually typing in comments to those b-----s on line. I would wait until he wasn't looking and go in and block him from being able to view those sites. You can go into the history of web sites visited and copy and paste them into the blocked sites in your tools, internet options windows. LoL! I feel for you but maybe he needs a little more variety from your sex lives. I finally said, no pun intended, "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em." So now, when we are feeling horny, we watch them together in the bedroom. Now he has slacked off looking at it during (no pun intended) "down time!" LOL! Did I say that? It has given us new ideas and a bit more spice in our sex life. We have been married for quite a few years and the fighting over it just made us miserable. So I thought I would check it out with him and we don't argue anymore, we love instead. Now the comments on those webpages is wrong. I would be hurt and furious. Good luck dear.
2006-11-11 23:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The things some women are willing to put up with!!!!! He has landed his as* in the cream the gets all the visual stimulation of a hot sexy woman because he knows that in reality a girl like that would never even look at him to her he is an amoeba.
Then he is so turned on by these other women he sticks his penis in you I bet you his eyes are closed when he is doing it. So he can pretend with your body that he is doing it with the hot chick from the Internet. And u LET HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Maybe he don't love u????? gee ya think???? He is an as*hole you deserve much better and sorry to so raw but you asked. Tell that man to go live with that girl on the Internet.That is the worst kind of way a man can disrespect to good love that you give him and in that case he does not deserve your good loving.
2006-11-12 00:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old is he? If he's in his teens he probably can't help it but anyone above that age treshold has no excuse. It honestly sounds disgusting and I don't know why you're putting up with it.
2006-11-11 23:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIving with someone you're not married to is just as bad. Get rid of him and change your life. Resolve to not make this mistake again.
Find a decent man, and not some pig.
2006-11-11 23:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
2 to 3 times a day is a little to much even for a man. maybee once or twice a week. He sounds a bit addicted to it. Typing messeges is a little to much.
2006-11-12 00:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a software like NetDog Porn Filter on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.NetDogSoft.com
2006-11-12 14:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you stay in a relationship where when you are intimate the image of what he has been watching is ever present in his mind? Let him grow up on his own pulling on his manhood while viewing his fantasies, Don't cheapen yourself and be a part of it.
2006-11-12 00:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-06-23 03:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by Shena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like addictive behavior to me. And any addicition will slowly destroy a relationship. Your call. But those are the facts.
2006-11-11 23:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋