2006-11-11 23:42:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no excuse for a male to hit a female, none at all. Kick the slim bag in the nuts and get the hell out off there. Then call the cops.
I am a male and I just can't handle a guy that hit a woman. It is just wrong and a sin.
2006-11-11 23:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Persons who are physically abusive usually have psychological problems. They may acquire this from abnormal enviroment that they grow up with like abusive parents, relatives etc.
Persons who beats their girflriends are abnormal. They need psychological attention or theraphy. But this does not mean that they will not change. Through a series of theraphy sessions, they can learn how to tame their temper and realize that beating or finding means to physically hurt others is not only the way to ease their anger.
Although, having an abusive boyfriend is a little bit risky, it is the love and sincerity and compassion that will help both of you overcome this problem. If you have a physically abusive partner, try to talk to him heart to heart. Explain to him that the abuses he is doing is not the kind of love you want from him. If he really loves you, he will listen and eventually obey you to undergo theraphy. After all, it is for your relationship's sake!!
Good luck!!!
Willow
2006-11-12 08:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For goodness sake why on earth have you had to ask this question, you know you have to leave him, I know it can be easier said than done, because you probably have feelings for this guy, but honestly you have to leave him and do it now, I used to go out with a very abusive boy when I was 18 (errr, just a few years ago...lol) and I stayed with him because I thought I loved him, it took me to actually meet another man who was really nice to actually dump him and with the help of my new fella I got shut of him, it was the best thing I ever did, I got my life back, and have never looked back since, I went on to Marry my knight in shining armour and had 2 wonderful girls, and you can do it too, you have to get the strength from somewhere to do it, you will do it I know you will, Good Luck and I wish you well for your future.
2006-11-12 07:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by hotbabes_tracey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are still with him, you are not dealing with it you are his victim and probably not his first.... My friend wa brutally beaten, raped, stabbed and now is a walking zombie by a bf..... Get out now. if you need a restraining order get it.... and report it to the police now, get a doc to examine you and take pictures if need be...There are too many wonderful men out there who would treat you nice. You do not deserve it and you need to take your power back and make the best decision of your life. get out of this relationship and report him......
2006-11-12 07:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dmp him, immediately, tell a trusted friend or adult and run, don't walk away....
why do you even ask this?....you were put on this earth for a reason and I am real sure it was not to be beaten by some idiot, if you had a daughter would you want her to be with someone who beat her up?????? Well I am not you mama....but if I were, I would have him for dinnner, I don't mean invite him to dinner, I mean have him for dinner....girl get brains, get out, you are better than that. good luck, god bless, and RUN.!!!!
2006-11-12 07:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter what you can always do better and dont be scared to leave be scared to stay and report it that way theres a file on his history so if he does it again it wont be a first ofence report and get out
2006-11-12 07:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by toysoldier 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First call the police and report it and get yourself out of that situation before something terrible happens.
2006-11-12 07:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nothing to deal with. leave him and have a better life. life is more worth than living with all this.
2006-11-12 08:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Get out of the relationship now before he really hurts you.
2006-11-12 07:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by calling the police or walking out the front door never to return!
2006-11-12 07:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋