me and my boyfriend to our friends for a drink we argued as usual he went outside til things calmed down with with a bottle and one of them(girl) we were all hammered but while they were outside i had sex in the kitchen with our other mate(guy) i didnt remember doing it but did when i woke up the next day i had bite marks all over me i still dont know all the details but there coming for tea on friday how can i face them should i tell her i slept with her boyfriend ? should i tell my boyfriend ? my friend (guy) tried calling me but i cant anwser the phone he wants to do it again please help i know i will go to hell
2006-11-07 23:47:54 · 40 answers · asked by dawn300873 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Shame, shame, shame.
2006-11-07 23:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by iamlsu 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
stop being such a damn hypocrite with your'e i know i will go to hell' nonsense...you're just trying to save yourself a verbal beating from the god squad on here...it wont help you,theyre a determined bunch,lol...
look all i can say is you are a silly girl....i know that you probably know that already...you should let that be a lesson in how you handle your drink...unless you behave like that regardless of whether you are drunk or not...you have to be kidding about your b/f being outside while you were having away in the kitchen...wtf...im going to tell you how this sounds to me and that will help you decide whether to tell your friend and boyfriend...the lot of you sound like a bunch of idiots...your b/f drunk outside with another girl and angry...the other guy leaving bite marks all over you and you sound like a silly little girl that drinks too much for your disposition and that says yes to anything in pants then cant deal with the aftermath....if you tell them be prepared to take a load of crap off everyone...just dont keep going the way you are...you ever seen tv footage of a girl thats pissed and all over a bloke...it looks pathetic and not attractive in the least...this may sound harsh but im being honest here...if you are ok with the way you behaved then carry right on...but i dont think you are...sort yourself out girl...and no protection...i dont even have to start on that...its just plain stupid...you need to look in the mirror and grow up a little...im not being nasty, just honest...short sharp shock sometimes is all we need to put things in perspective...good luck with it all ;0)
2006-11-08 00:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you were having sex in the kitchen maybe he was having sex in the garden. See which one of you cracks first. Why all the bite marks? I suggest you give him a good feed when they come for tea on Friday. He must be starving.
2006-11-08 00:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why should you go to hell. we all make mistakes its part of growing up.this will have taught you a lesson , yes it was the wrong thing to do but be honest get it out in the open. if you dont believe me it will come back and bite you when you are least expecting it.
there is always someone waiting in the background to take advantage.tell the guy you are going to come clean with your boyfriend,and whatever the outcome you do not want to have any thing to do with him, as he will only use you. hope this helps .
good luck god bess
2006-11-08 00:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your b'friend you should be honest with him - you might be able to work through it. Cos if he found out from his mate there would be even less hope of you working it out.
As for the other guy - tell him he was sh*t and you wouldn't do it again even if he paid you.
Tell your best mate what happened, tell her you need to be honest with her, even if it means loosing her, because you love her dearly and regret what happened. She can then make the decision as to what to do about her b'friend.
might be an idea to cut back on drinking too while your at it.
good luck.
2006-11-08 03:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don´t believe in hell, don´t worry for this. But you have not clear what is to love and respect to you, your boyfriend, even your friend, and the same I say about your friend.
But I am thinking that maybe your boyfriend was doing the same outside.
In my opinion any of you have idea about an adult, sane and normal behavior.
2006-11-09 04:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by northener70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line - be honest and let the chips fall where they may. Learn from it - chalk it up to one of those things that makes you a better person because you have experience. But always be honest it makes you a better person. You never know something positive may come out of it.
2006-11-10 01:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consider having a pregnancy test, if your not pregnant then maybe go on the pill. You young people amaze me, and I dont mean that in a good way either. Your in a right mess and I don't envy you. Infact, I've got no idea what you should do, because in the end the truth always comes out.
2006-11-07 23:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well i should say that you are very courageous to face your doings its a good thing anyhow what you have done is not that good, so take a lesson from this and do not drink and get to the right side of normal life and be safe for ever tell it to your BF and whatever he decides accept it and go with it smoothly.
life is not gone but yes you have done a crime and a sin but you can still be forgiven by God and your BF so try your best to be away from such situations and also consult your medical care personnel to advice you in this regard after proper checkup.
Good Luck
God Bless you!
2006-11-08 00:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Precious Soul 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is what happens when you're too young to have sex and to drink.
Sounds like one huge mess.
I'd be more concerned about getting to the doctor for the after pill so you don't get pregnant. Of course that doesn't protect you from STDs, Aids etc.
2006-11-07 23:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It looks like you'd better look for another place to live, your out, your all through here young lady, it's all over for you. Face the music and see what happens. You blew it, there's no other way to tell you. They're going to find out with the attitude you have, you act like you want them to know, maybe brag about being poked by your friends friend. For shame.
2006-11-07 23:53:57 · answer #11 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋