Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

2006-11-06 23:59:37 · 15 answers · asked by Ant O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

on by girls who smoke girly cigarettes like Misty 120's and Virginia Slims 120's...does the length really make a difference?

2006-11-06 23:59:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She doesn't want to tell my putor away but she does want to be able to trust that I'm not getting up in the middle of the night and sneeking on but just using it on sundays. I really want to stop too and i'm Christain so I don't want to lie to my parents. It's making my life hard too cause I find it hard to get out of bed and of to school some mornings cause i been up so ridiculously late. Mum wants me to think of a punishment for me that will stop me disobeying her, she doen't want to take away my computor cause i need it for study, she just wants me to stop using it at the wrong times and she wants me to help her think of a punishment so i understand that shes not just being mean. I suggested i could do more chores but she said she knows i don't mind doing chores. If i can't think of anything then it will have to be standing silent in the corner for the same amount of time i been cheating same as when i was younger. Any ideas cause i'm afraid of going back to standing in the corner.

2006-11-06 23:59:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy two years ago randomly. On the second date he told me that he is accepted a good position and moving to India for a few years. Two years later I get transferred to India for my job. I happened to keep in touch once in a while.I sent him and email and he is still in india and single. Since i have been here we have been seeing each other when I have days off. he is nice and takes a good care of me when I see him. he is not very affectionate in public at all. and after I go back to my town he called me a onces in while.2-3 times a week only. He travels alot and he is very busy. Last weekend he flew from a different place to see me. It was really nice of him but then agian when we were out he wasn't very affetionate. At night I told him that I think he is a player and i wont sleep with him this time. He tells me his not a PDA person and he strange this way. but He likes me very much wants to be with me. He even used the L word! Do you think he just wanted to sleep with me?

2006-11-06 23:58:56 · 4 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

how can two paths be so opposite.

2006-11-06 23:58:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, I am in a delima right now. A few weekends ago I tried calling my long distance girl friend and I never got ahold of her because some one else picked up the phone and told me nat to call again until my GF called back. So her family is mad at me because of that. I really want to make it up with her family. So what am I to do? I can't call or write a letter...all I can do is have my GF speak for me. But I want to know how I could make it up and say sorry, I just don't want to dump the "sorrys" on her.

2006-11-06 23:58:19 · 3 answers · asked by Drew S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I posted a question about dating advice a couple of days ago. But now I'm starting to have dreams about one girl. Not wet dreams, just dreams. e.g. in last night's dream I was flirting with her, and I guess we were bf and gf because we were exchanging short kisses and the like. Two nights ago my dream was the same girl and I (I'm not giving out her name in case she happens to be one of the viewers looking at my question) were going to the movies, we kissed, then halfway through the kiss I woke up due to a thunderstorm. Could you DREAM EXPERTS please help me out and tell me what I should do? Should I ask this girl out? Is she possibly the ONE? Stuff like that.

P.S. I know it's too soon for me to be thinking she's the one, but I was just giving you examples of what info I wanted. Thank you.

2006-11-06 23:58:19 · 6 answers · asked by itachi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 23:56:41 · 11 answers · asked by shadow_ofindia 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always supported my husband except on the occasion when he wanted to open a business with his other woman as a partner.I thought that I was fulfilling my role as wife and best friend,mother ,daughter in law,sister in law(because thay stayed with us for a while)until my husband came home and told me that he does not fel like a husband.This was when he started having his first affair.Ihad always made or thought I made myself available to all his needs and still look good,keep a full time job with two kids and have my in laws live with us for a time.I did not know where I went wrong for my husband tocheat on me with several women and be in long term relationships with them while he gave the impression to my in laws that it was all my fault.
I am fed up of his infedelity and his abuse behavior when Iconfront him.He has said that these women gave him all their attention.Some were married themselves,involved with other men and even single moms.Will people ever really know the truth?

2006-11-06 23:56:33 · 42 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-06 23:54:38 · 15 answers · asked by paulnewns1968 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do some guys never reply to texts when the are supposed to fancy you?(they show all the signs when you are together that they fancy you)Especially if you are trying to arrange a time to meet up?

2006-11-06 23:54:11 · 18 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Singles & Dating

I am currently dating two guys... This is very hard for me because I have always been the good girl... I have not made a commitment to either of them... All I have done is kiss them... Both of them seem to like me a lot... Both of them consider me their girlfriend... I do not think that either of them are the one... But I do enjoy their company... I feel like I am being dishonest, even though I have not made a commitment or lied to either of them... Should I just keep doing what I am doing? Leave both? Just pick one?

2006-11-06 23:53:55 · 17 answers · asked by tanglo02 2 in Singles & Dating

i just dont know why he comes over ever i dont mind seeing him at all i have a crush on wich is kinda bad but he brings his girlfriend over and she never talks. and he checks me out with his girlfriend next to him. its just weird

2006-11-06 23:53:40 · 3 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 23:51:39 · 7 answers · asked by flirtydesirablenurse 1 in Weddings

Yes, Im fat! I have been told, if I slim down I will be real cute and pretty. Maybe alot of ppl have also told the SAME thing to YOU.
But you have a loving bf or gf to be with you. Why am I still single? I wanna to be attached too! It's irritating to have friends and relatives asking, where is your boyfriend? Argh! Im 25 and still single. WHY?! Pls answer!

2006-11-06 23:51:25 · 26 answers · asked by ProblemGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 23:49:55 · 6 answers · asked by DM FORMULAR 1 in Singles & Dating

I practice Aikido and a couple other Martial Arts. I shave my body and I am a straight guy. Do you think that shaving my body is unmasculine? I'm just curious to what some other people think.

2006-11-06 23:48:38 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

love its too complicated to pick girl when there are two love one guy man. so still confused wat to do

2006-11-06 23:47:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will admit that my husband was not the most help around the house before, but since he has been on medical leave for wrist surgery, he has just added to the mess instead of helping clean it. I know that he can't do a whole lot of chores with only one hand, but he could put dirty clothes in the washer, put clean ones in the dryer and dry clothes in a basket, so I can fold them later. And he most certainly could pick up the stuff around the living room. He hasn't done anything since this leave started at the end of Sept. He sleeps late everyday and watches hunting shows on TV all day long. I have been expecting him to watch our daughter 3-4 days out of the week, to save on daycare since he is only bringing in a percent of his normal pay, and all he does is complain about what a brat she was all day. Funny how I dont have that problem with her on my days off and neither does her sitter. He just seems to want to treat this as a vacation and do nothing. How do I get him to at least help?

2006-11-06 23:47:28 · 18 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 42 yo male who hasn't had a girlfriend since college (1989). I've had a lot of bad first dates and more recently have found that women are scared off when they find out how long it's been since I was in a relationship. Because of this I've stopped asking women out and asked friends to stop trying to fix me up.

I'm thinking that maybe I need to date a woman I'm not attracted to just so that I can tell future prospective dates that I just got out of a relationship.

Any other ideas? (please don't suggest dating websites)

2006-11-06 23:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by tibialplateau 1 in Singles & Dating

you had loved the person for a very long time (more than a decade) and after a lot of years and waiting, they finally married you and then didn't move in? Happened to me. After 6 months of being married, they refused to move in and so I said I wanted a divorce. After that, they have tried to reconcile, but I feel like it's been too much and too wierd for too long. What do you think?

2006-11-06 23:46:58 · 21 answers · asked by Cycleogical 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She sat me down and told me that her decisions about her job were confusing her, that she had thought what it would be like to be with other people. We live apart (she lives about 50 miles away due to her job and we have been together on/off for 8 years, it is an extension of a teenage romance) and there is a new male flatmate I am pretty sure has taken her interest. However she then told me that she loves me, she likes the thought of me being the father to her children and that she loves me too much, saying that if I cheated on her she would probably take me back (I replied to this by saying that I would not put her in that position - this is the truth as I love her so much and constantly think about her being the mother to my children). She then came up to mine at the weekend and we had a really nice time, going out with my friends and hanging out, sex was good but lacked a little intimacy. However when I talk to her on the phone she is very guarded but then says I love u at the end?

2006-11-06 23:46:28 · 4 answers · asked by orangutan1001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

anyone out there tell me if this is a low act i just in the last few weeks got divorce as the woman i call her that because to call her a lady would be totally wrong but anyhow we got married 5 years ago because i thought we was both in love well one of us was anyhow and maybe one have a child of our own but after all this time i found out 10 months through a friend of hers that she could not have children that she had the female op many years earlier but no way she buys the female items no honey you need to know cannot have kids & she only married you for the money you came across from australia with my Q is should i be angry or what for living out her lie for the 5 yrs of being with her or just put it down to yet another kick in the GUT
WOMBAT

2006-11-06 23:44:54 · 7 answers · asked by wombat4412 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont understand it.Okay from the start,we decided that we gona take things slow.We both at the age to settle down but we havent really talked bout it been him and I.Taking it slow is a good thing if we want it to last but how slow can we go?He says the most sweetest things and told me that his parent do know about me but I have not officially met them.He has met my parents but was not introduced as my guy friend.Meeting the parents is a very big thing and it makes me wonder when he is deciding to take me home.We have only been together for 5 months but we both dont want to mess around anymore.When I bring up the issues that we do have (like every normal couple has),he pushes me away by just agreeing or changing the topic.We spend lots of time with friends and dont have much quality time together.To be honest,I dont think that either of us make the effort to be alone.He has made a promise to me and I think I could truly luv him but im afraid that he wont want to talk about that.Help

2006-11-06 23:44:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need girls and bous answers

2006-11-06 23:43:39 · 11 answers · asked by bluecavyrider 2 in Singles & Dating

In answering a question regarding erectile disfunction and continued sexual interest, one woman responded, "I mean... I'm 33 and I'm tired of it already. I pray for the day when my husband no longer gets horny." Is this a common feeling? How do you feel about it? My wife and I weren't even married until we were 30. We have adapted to my situation, but neither of us has given up our interest. I'm merely curious about this woman's response. What do you think?

2006-11-06 23:41:56 · 11 answers · asked by brenbon1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i went to visit my bf the other day and one thing led to another but i stopped everything b4 things got hectic and now he's upset with me won't talk to me. i've apologised a zillion times already but still won't talk to me. i am really confused at the moment. told him that i wasn't and still am not sexually active, see the thing is the first time we met he said that he doesn't ever get angry or mad at anybody. well we all know men will go at anything to impress a woman right so i fell for it coz he sounded so real and true. now i feel like i met up with the most unreal man ever, i don't know maybe i was wrong please give me and advice.

sweetie pie!!

2006-11-06 23:41:45 · 10 answers · asked by sweetie pie 1 in Singles & Dating

Some people who are shy become more confident when they are considered popular among their friends while people who are confident in the first place become popular because of this. Which way do you consider yourself to be?

2006-11-06 23:41:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend cheated on me over the weekend, but he came clean the next day. i forgave him because i value trust in our and any relationship and gave him a second chance, but after he told me i asked him if she ment anything to him and he hasnt replied yet. I love the guy but since he hasnt replied and its been 3 days could this mean ill lose him to the other woman, i want to be with him, but i dont want to force me to stay with me. i dont want to lose him, but he means so much to me im willing to let him go, as long as he can be happy and we can stay friends

2006-11-06 23:41:05 · 5 answers · asked by fallen_angel2099 1 in Singles & Dating

im a scorpio and it just seems like all ive had is dissapoinment. and heart ache a few good realtionships but im just so complex guys just wont hang around and argue with me. and i want some one who wont leave me for arguing with them.

2006-11-06 23:39:50 · 2 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating