i went to visit my bf the other day and one thing led to another but i stopped everything b4 things got hectic and now he's upset with me won't talk to me. i've apologised a zillion times already but still won't talk to me. i am really confused at the moment. told him that i wasn't and still am not sexually active, see the thing is the first time we met he said that he doesn't ever get angry or mad at anybody. well we all know men will go at anything to impress a woman right so i fell for it coz he sounded so real and true. now i feel like i met up with the most unreal man ever, i don't know maybe i was wrong please give me and advice.
sweetie pie!!
2006-11-06 23:41:45 · 10 answers · asked by sweetie pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congratulations. It's good to know that there are still girls with integrity. You apologized for the little crime u committed and he is still angry. Seems like he likes sex more than he likes you. Believe u me... I wouldn't get mad at ma girlfriend for not going all the way. You know why???????? Respect. A guy who is mad for that reason is not worth keeping. Would you be mad at him if he did to you what you did? When you answer that question u will know the future of your relationship. Good luck...pls dnt have sex just to keep him.
2006-11-06 23:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time so that he will realise he was wrong and then see what happens. If he loves you he will definitely apologise for his actions. And please don't say that men will do everything to impress because in your case your bf lied coz everybody knows that it's impossible to not get angry or mad at somebody, even the calmest person in the world gets angry sometimes. It's in the human's instinct.
2006-11-07 07:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's your bf why not??? I would be mad to if you led me on to think we were going to do something and we don't. he probably isn't going to want you anymore or he'll start cheating so move on, it's the best thing to do because he don't understand that you don't wanna be sexually active maybe you don't need a bf right now.
2006-11-07 07:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by 1 luvly LEO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you are strong woman for choosing not to me sexually active. stay strong. if he told you he can deal with it then but now he can he will never. let him go before you let it go. their is many more REAL men out their dont give it up. till you feel good and ready. i respect your views and wished i did what you choose to do. hang in their girl.
2006-11-07 07:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by lilbabythree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good way to lose a boyfriend is to make him wait too long for sex.
so why not bring him off with your hand?
he will always protest it isn't right but it will keep him coming back in search of more.
2006-11-07 07:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him his space ,don't do anything that is against your belief
everybody get bad,upset at some time ,if you thought he would never get up set you must have thought you and he were perfect
there are no prefect people in this world .
2006-11-07 07:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was after one thing and he didn't get it, so now he's going to pout like a baby.
If I were you, I would move on and find a partner who respects your wishes.
Good luck.
2006-11-07 07:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he;s angry because you wont sleep with him. forget him. dont fall prey to these arseholes. if it isnt because of this. do forgive my language.
remember. if he's gonna get angrry and demand something. whats to stop him from demanding it again or demanding even more in the future. just tell him you are string and he has to keep his word . or else, call it quites. God has someone better for you out there. his timing and methods are not always our ways .
2006-11-07 07:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Lose the loser. He's only after one thing.
2006-11-07 07:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by rosbif 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he truely likes/loves you then he will understand, but if not, drop him
2006-11-07 07:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by sam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋